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How are you.On my side Iam on the process of changing myself daily.But Zindagi har kadam ek nayi jung hai.For me it is a every day Jung to deal with my MIL and SIL.No matter how ever strong I try to be They leave no chance to hurt me.I have one query.My SIL lives on 2nd floor.Is it a rule that person living on the 2nd floor owns the terrace too.Becos my SIL made a great issue on my servants entering into the terrace.she was screaming like mad on him poor fellow he came running down he had just gone up to keep some stuff in the room built for servants on the terrace.Secondly her kids keep on scribbling on the walls close to our gate.They scratch with some sharp thing rest of the building is clean so It has to be them,also they keep on throwing all kids of rubbish in our balcony.I KNOW THESE QUESTIONS MAY SOUND STUPID ANF TRIFLE but is there a way out.When I told this to my MIL she started screaming on the top of her voice To hell with you,tera satyanaash ho.I felt very bad that is why Iam talking to I believe thats what friends are for.I need a help booster answer from you .Thanks again Srey replied. I' ve been so so busy with work. I actually miss this site to tell you the truth. *smiles*

I see your MIL and SIL is getting on your nerves again, huh? Don' t they ever give up! I mean...It make me want to fly to India, take you to a Spa, get our nails done...then, I' ll go and have a long long talk with them. Don' t worry, I won' t hurt them. I' ll just paint their face when they are asleep and show it to the world. LOL(sorry). I saw it on TV once. *laughting*

Okay, about the living arrangements. Let me get this straight. I live in Boston, MA once so... Maybe I can help. Who owns the building? If the house is divided into 2 units. Like #1(Downstairs) and #2(upstairs) each unit comes fully loaded with its own kitchen, living room, baths and etc. Then the person living in that unit is infact in charge of taking care of thier unit. Or did I miss something?

Screaming at the servants, huh? What' s new? It seemed as if your SIL is having PMS 24 hours a day 7 days week. And the subject about scratches on the walls. Just look and their Mom, she a mess. No wonder her kids are like this. Do you think she is telling her kids to do this intentionally to you?

...Your MIL, seemed as if, she is always there to back your SIL. It makes me wonder sometimes, Is your MIL afraid of your SIL?

Keep us updated. TTYL.