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2006-05-18

Name: SSS hi,
i have a problem with my hubby since he has the habit of seeing all girls boobs. He stares at each and every girl eventhough iam with him. this makes me very upset. iam slim and beautiful. he never tells me that he loves me or iam beautiful but he tries to keep me happy. i dont know whether he loves me or not. i feel realy bad for this and started feeling iam not good looking girl. Is this common with all husbands? Can i do anything with this? please help.

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hi,
i have a problem with my hubby since he has the habit of seeing all girls boobs. He stares at each and every girl eventhough iam with him. this makes me very upset. iam slim and beautiful. he never tells me that he loves me or iam beautiful but he tries to keep me happy. i dont know whether he loves me or not. i feel realy bad for this and started feeling iam not good looking girl. Is this common with all husbands? Can i do anything with this? please help. Friend replied. Hi SSS,
This problem is there with all the husbands in world.If one has a full size wife and men are fascinated by slim beaties.And men whose wives are slim are fascinated by big women.It is always greener on the other side.As long as he does not make you feel low or try to lower you then you must be ok.I was a ravishing beauty( sorry about the self praising) with a very curvy figure and 'healthy'and My husband fell in love with me head over heels when he first saw me! and used to say that He always liked girls who are plump and curvy.I felt like I was a queen and was loved and kind of pampered.
After 4 years or marriage and a baby now I have almost successfully maintained thae figure but little bit more on the plumper side than before.Now My husband keeps staring at those slim, thin beauties eveywhere.It is very obvious that he is staring at any attractive slim girl(He will look like he is going to eat them whole!) and now there is no point in going and asking him 'Hey,so when did your taste for women change?'..or 'how dare you stare at her when ME,your ultimate voluptious beautifull wife is standing next to you '..The truth is 'HE PREFERS STARING AT THEM.There is no point in questioning him!.I guess when you get more and more of gulam jamun they start to crave for rasgulla.
As long as he does not make you feel down or affect your relationship,forgive him and forget this.After all he is a Man, a very weaker creation of god unlike Women!
See I am still loved and pampered so I put it in a corner of my mind but never blow it up or corber him.Again after he is a Man....

2006-05-18

Name: Friend
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Hi There.

Hi SSS,
This problem is there with all the husbands in world.If one has a full size wife and men are fascinated by slim beaties.And men whose wives are slim are fascinated by big women.It is always greener on the other side.As long as he does not make you feel low or try to lower you then you must be ok.I was a ravishing beauty( sorry about the self praising) with a very curvy figure and 'healthy'and My husband fell in love with me head over heels when he first saw me! and used to say that He always liked girls who are plump and curvy.I felt like I was a queen and was loved and kind of pampered.
After 4 years or marriage and a baby now I have almost successfully maintained thae figure but little bit more on the plumper side than before.Now My husband keeps staring at those slim, thin beauties eveywhere.It is very obvious that he is staring at any attractive slim girl(He will look like he is going to eat them whole!) and now there is no point in going and asking him 'Hey,so when did your taste for women change?'..or 'how dare you stare at her when ME,your ultimate voluptious beautifull wife is standing next to you '..The truth is 'HE PREFERS STARING AT THEM.There is no point in questioning him!.I guess when you get more and more of gulam jamun they start to crave for rasgulla.
As long as he does not make you feel down or affect your relationship,forgive him and forget this.After all he is a Man, a very weaker creation of god unlike Women!
See I am still loved and pampered so I put it in a corner of my mind but never blow it up or corber him.Again after he is a Man....

2006-05-19

Name: Friend
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And Oh I forgot.... S-x once a week or once in 15 days is fine I think.If he wants more don't say NO and try your best to enjoy.If he seems not interested all the times find out,talk frankly what is the problem.Most of the time these guys have something in mind and dont know how to get over it.It might be really silly.Talk Talk and Talk .that is the only solution.
But anyway I think once in 15 days is fine!

2006-05-19

Name: Friend
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I used to go for walking long distances after my delivery and still try to do it most of the times.I nursed my boy until he was a year old.I think that helped me reduce little bit.
Little bit of dieting(I cut down on the rice and it always worked for me.)
And Has your stomach gone back inside after pregnancy.That is where I face problem.Weight is controlled & gone back to prepregnancy but I still have a little bit of tummy.Trying my best!.You said you are slim.How did you reduce your tummy.

2006-05-19

Name: sss
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thanks

Hi
Thanks for your reply. Feeling bit relieved now. Even i have a baby after 5 years of marriage. Any particular exersice to mantain a previous body shape? After a baby we have sex hardlly once a week or 15 days. Is it normal? please reply

2006-05-18

Name: Friend
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Hi There.

In the last sentence I meant 'after all he is a man...'

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