I had a n abortion two years ago as I just had my daughter. Even after two years I feel so guilty about doing what I did. Specially when I see so many people going through the pain of miscarriage. I just pray to god for forgiveness. Sonali J. Hudar replied. When I lost my baby mid-pregnanvy, I was quite distrauught. Someone who is a deeply spiritual person told me this and it might help you too! Until the baby's umbilical cord is cut during a birthing, it does not have independent life. Even the soul of the baby forms only much later. In fact, it takes years for the soul to firmly anchor itself in the body. SO maybe what happened to all of us was just something within our own bodies. Maybe you shouldn't feel so guilty so many years later. I know from personal experience that minute you know you're pregnant, we start thinking in terms of a child, a baby, but maybe it's easuer to think in the other way. vendulka replied. Dear Ladies, I understand ur feelings, it happend me the same, but that time i knew that there was no other way for me. U also did the same - that time, u surely manytimes where thinking of positives and negatives of this deed and asked in days and nights - do i do right ...? and surely u did right ...
Now there is no way to return it back - instead of feeling guilty, dont give up yourself, go and help to some child which is in some need of support - it will help you .... guilty replied. i too went through the same situation two years back.i still can't forget my past. the guilty feeling killed me for the past two years, i cried alot whenever i think about it. At that time i had to no choice, but now im trying to conceive for the past 8 months,I stil have not conceived yet, i feel god is punishing me for the sin i did.i hope he will forgime me one day.