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2003-09-04
Name: Megha



Hi friends,
I had a miscarriage 5 days back and am really depressed and worried.
I wanted to know from those who have had such a painful experience earlier about what kind of special care and precautions they took for their next normal pregnancies ?
Take Care
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2003-09-08
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Anonymous Name: sweety
Subject:  Have Faith in God



Hello Megha,

Got you reply on other board.

Don't expect that u will forget everything..i still count days..it's very difficult..you know as my due date(5th nov) is approaching..i am feeling more sad.

But there are many people who faced more pbms than us. One of my very close friend lost her twins in 5th month(may 2003). Whenever I feel sad
I rem her grief......

I think naturally removing is very painful process. But, doc can judge what's best for you.

Please get your whole checkup after sometime to check there are no remains there. Because, it will create problems for your future pregnancy.

I suggest you to pretend that u r in great pain after sometime if they don't listen to u. Then they will definitely
do ur sono. I know this is not the correct way. But, here this is the only trick to get good treatment. I experienced all this that's why I am telling you. I know all doc's are different but still.....

You know I check every board of 2004....thinking I will soon become member of it.....i know it sounds weird...but still ..i guess u unstd...

I will pray for you......God bless us all with kids....I am going for blood
test after doctor's call..may be next month....it depends on the result...when we can start trying ag...please keep me in ur prayers ....

if u want to share something..i am always here.....

Baby dust us all..........
Take Care
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Sweety
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2003-09-10
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Anonymous Name: sweety
Subject:  Thanx Megha



Hi Megha,

It's ok...We don't have our family here.
So, friends are the only support here.
Thanx for your wish.

It's good to know that your bleeding has stopped. Bleeding too much is the only major problem after miscarraige.
If you are doing fine, then I think you can start trying again soon(at least after 2 months). In mine case, I bleeded too much ..that's why I am still waiting.

I hope we will be sharing good things soon.

Lucky to get friend like you.

Take Care,
Love
Sweety
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2003-09-10
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Anonymous Name: Sunil Kumar
Subject:  Thanx Megha



Hi Megha,

It's ok...We don't have our family here.
So, friends are the only support here.
Thanx for your wish.

It's good to know that your bleeding has stopped. Bleeding too much is the only major problem after miscarraige.
If you are doing fine, then I think you can start trying again soon(at least after 2 months). In mine case, I bleeded too much ..that's why I am still waiting.

I hope we will be sharing good things soon.

Lucky to get friend like you.

Take Care,
Love
Sweety
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2003-09-09
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Anonymous Name: Megha
Subject:  Take Care



Hi Sweety,
You are a real sweetheart..I can't tell you how much you have helped in comforting me.
I'm sure good things happen to good people like you so don't worry..I will pray hard for you and soon you will have wonderful babies.

I know naturally removing is quite painful emotionally (specially when i saw the whole sac come out ) but i have stopped bleeding since yesterday so i am hoping things are going to be fine.Will take your advice anyway and tell the doctor to check for anything remaining inside.

Do let me know the progress at your end form time to time .Somehow i feel so close to you:-)
Take care,
Love
Megha
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