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Miscarriage and Child Loss:Sailaja
2003-06-17
Name: Karuna



Hi Sailaja,
I'm so sorry for ur miscarriage..I can understand how u must be feeling b'cause its ur second one. Take heart..don't loose hope..everything would be alright. Did the doctor tell u the cause?
Talk to the doctor about ur experience and ask him what precautions u must take while u try to concieve again. And yes, there may be many causes for miscarriages, so ask him to do all the tests related to it, like chromosome test, TORCH test etc..
My doctor will do these tests for me within next few weeks. She asked me to wait for 1yr before concieving again..
Its sure is a very painful experience but don't get scared for ur next time..take needful precautions.
Pls do share ur feelings with me and do keep me posted.

Hugs,
Karuna
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2003-07-02
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Anonymous Name: sailaja
Subject:  Miscarriage



Hi Karuna,

Sorry, i didnt see this message for so many days.Thanks for ur sweet words.How are u doing?I know,how tough it must be for u.You took the right decision,I am hope and pray that things will be bettr for u next time.Are u getting any tests done?The doctor said it is normal.He said it was GOD'S or natures way of telling it was not meant to be.Here in U.S,they will do the tests only after three consecutive miscarriages.That is only then the insurance will pay for all those tests,If we get it done on our own it is very costly.They said the next time i get pregnant they will test my blood for progestone hormone.So ,i am going down to India to get all the tests then.And my doctor also said that i can start trying as soon as i get my first period.
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