Deep, I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. i don't have ne words to console u as i myself went thru the worst tragedy of losing my twins at the end of the 5'th month of my pregnancy. My due date was in mid-december 2003. I've tried to be very strong & am doing it well...but sometimes i break down unconsolabely. Your pain is worse than mine bcoz u were almost at the end of your pregnancy, please keep yourself strong & at this time hold on to the love & support of your hubby...bcoz its only you two who can feel this loss the most. I've been trying to cope up w'h my loss in these last 3 months, i had to undergo a very painful surgery to abort my babies & had to hear from the docs that it was the best option left for us. I'm praying that no mother has to ever go through this ever.
I never posted ne m'gs about this bcoz i never wanted ne of u to feel pain during such important time in ur lives...but w'd regularly go thru all the m'gs & today when i saw ur m'g....i once again felt that same pain i experienced when my pregnancy was terminated at such a high stage. Please keep ur faith in life & believe in the fact that one day it will give you all that u desired for. Lots of love & Blessings to you. Radhi (Dec Board) replied. im very sorry to hear abt ur loss. as deep said losing a child at any point is tough. be it at 5 months, near full term or even after the child is a grownup. i lost my 19 yr old younger sis 3 years back in an accident. it was a shock and slowly my family has started tiding over it n getting on with life. but my parents still find it tough to come to terms with her loss but have nevertheless got on with life, coz they dont have a choice. when god deprives u of a loved one, i feel the same god will give u the strength to bear it too. and time is the best healer. my family has got over it. but we still my sis's strong presence amongst us. shes a beautiful dream today. deep n divya, u both are young, with a whole life ahead of u. and im sure god has a lot of good things stored for your future life. so all i can say from my personal experience is, have faith, pray hard and u will be able to get over this loss. and hope u guysare blessed with kids soon enough. my prayers will always be with u 2. Simmi replied. Divya, really sorry to hear about the traumatic time you had to go through and the loss you had is not replacable. However, your faith in God will see you through this time and like Deep said, you both will be blessed with healthy babies real soon.
U are in my prayers. God give you strength and please do share your feelings when you can.
Lots of love,
Simmi deep replied. Hi Divya...

It not easy losing your baby at any point of the pregnancy. A loss is a loss. I know what u mean by not being about to control ur emotions at times. I, too, try to be normal most of the times. Even try to be strong for everyone else around me but there are moments when i just break down. Nothing seems to console.

Like everyone tells me, God will shower us with happiness of a child soon. Another mom who lost her child said- May God baby dust us all! I'm sure he will.

Take good care od urself. God bless.
Love,
Deep