hi all,

i have just entered 7th month..i am constantly under stress since the starting of my pregnancy due to family issues and in-laws..this stress often comes in the form tears and tension..i have cried badly several times in my pregnancy and now i am worried that constant stress since past 6 months may have harmed my baby in some or the other way..i need genuine help and knowledge on this topic of stress in pregnancy from all of you..what can i do?is my baby safe? plz help.. Meenakshi replied. Hi Puja,

I can understand that u r going thru a hard time...but then if u have taken a decision to give birth to another life,think about that sweet..little angle.What is his/her fault.I dont know what is the reason for ur in-laws being harsh to u..but try to forget everything right now.BE HAPPY...u know whatever u will think,u will feel,u will do,u will talk...it will all effect ur baby.

SO...i suggest u to be happy hereafter for ur child' s sake.forget abt past and don' t get involved with ur inlaws talks and always try to think abt ur baby.

i will pray for u and ur baby' s good health and happiness.

And u can always write down in this segment what u r feeling...its a good way to outburst and dont keep anytrhing in ur heart...SPEAK OUT & FORGET IT.

Meenakshi
all the best
take care
Valencia Dharani replied. Dear Puja - I can understand how you must feel, however, in such situations one must be selfish and think of oneself also. You must free yourself of this tension, pray, try Yoga.
Hope you feel better. rashmi replied. hi freind.
u shd consult ur doctor in this matter.she can only give u a good answer.anyway past is past,why don' t u try to spend ur rest pregnancy without stress and tears??where do u live?in india???are u not going to ur mother' s place for delivery???see puja family,in-law problems will always be there,why are u stressing urself???try to neglect,avoid them,and try to take care of urself,look now tht ur baby can hear u it can make out tht u r not happy.people say that if u r happy,laughing always baby will also be laughing always after it is born.try to ask ur doctor abt ur baby' s growth ,donot worry everything will be normal.
i sujjest u to be happy hereafter for ur child' s sake.forget abt past and don' t get involved with ur inlaws talks and always try to think abt ur baby,this will make u more relaxing.
i will pray for ur baby' s good health.
hope my answer was satisfying for u.
all the best
take care