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Joint Family:SIL Problem
2007-11-28
Name: sr



Hi All

I have a problem with my SIL.. normally she is fine and minds her own business. Well what happened was... i just got my own place.. and its not huge therefore I cannot have a big house party... so I decided to have a few small ones as I wanted to invite everyone round. I invited SIL, her hubby, Masiji and Masaji and their kids... and a couple of weeks laster I had my friends/cousins round and my husband' s cousins and friends.. and also invited my Sis and her hubby so I got them to come to my new place since they' d not been.
Now everytime I see SIL she keeps maoning and complaining that she was not invited. How should I handle her?
My sis never complained when I entertained my SIL etc.
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2007-11-29
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Anonymous Name: nits
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Tell her \" didi sabse pahele aap hi ko to bulaya tha\"
u certainly didnot ignore her..so tell her that..may be she forgot.

If she is a good person she would realize that and wont taunt u again.
If she continues to complain, forget about her..
u didnt do anything wrong...
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2007-11-29
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Anonymous Name: Ritika
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Next time she complains, give an equally excruciating groan and tell her \" OMG, I went to ALL that trouble and you FORGOT that I had invited you!!! Don' t you remember, I called you FIRST with mamaji etc..I can' t BELIEVE you FORGOT!!!! How COULD you!!!!\"

Hopefully a taste of her own medicine will keep her quiet after that.. :)
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2007-11-29
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Anonymous Name: sr
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Thanks Nits and Ritika

Yeah I guess I will have to iether ignore her or remind her that she was invited over too! Very annoying and childish isnt it?
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