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Waiting to try:Kindly Advice Archie

2005-05-24

Name: Ankita Archie,

I am right now around 5 weeks pregnant. Me and my husband are not interested in this pregnancy and want to terminate it. I am in Arizona and here in US, we have to undergo a surgery to abort.. As this is our first, we sentimentally feel bad.. We are kind of confused because neither do we want the kid now nor are we very bold in aborting it.. Healthwise is it advisable to undergo this. Will it cause any problem when I ttc in the future.. We will be trying again in next Jan..

Kindly advice please..

Ankita

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2005-05-24

Name: SSS
Subject:

Think before you act!

Ankita,deep down you yourself know this is not right and moreover you will be responsible for taking your own childs life,tell me will you be able to live with this feeling?
Every life created is almighty's will and we have no right to take it away,also the baby's survival is also gods respnsibility once he creates it he will somehow make things work out for you guys.
So dont rush into such crazy ideas like termination ,do you know how many people out there are yearning for babies all their lives....count your blessings and dont take it for granted please.
i just happened to read you post and honestly if i come across anything wrong its my duty to try to stop it ,apart from that we cannot physically stop you ,it is solely your call.
Please think about this .

2005-05-24

Name: archie
Subject:

what surgery

Dear Ankita,
I am little confused on issue.

First of all how could you not want when you got pregnant. To me aborting is like crime and when you want to ttc in soon in a few months what's wrong to have it carried what God has intended for you!

I am certain you knew what you were doing.

After all the scolding and hopefully this will make help changing your decision on to have baby or not.
What surgery are you referring to? I think you would be asked by two options:
Medication inducing pain and sort of labor, leading to abortion in 48-96 hours post treatment, followed up by an ultrasound to figure out all is gone through the bleeding.
Or
a D&C, which will make sure the abortion is perfect.

I am not usually in favor of abortion and I don't comment on such questions, sorry if you get offended. However I believe in 21st centruy we are well equipped and we are all able to avoid any unwanted pregnany before it forms and if it indeed happened then one must carry as God's will.

Archie

2005-05-24

Name: Neeta
Subject:

Why?

Hi Ankita,
I read your query and I am confused about it..When you say you will TTC in future why so much fear about the baby now? And if you are married and ultimately want to have children, why doing such a horrible thing as killing your own baby!!!! You will never be able to live in peace once you abort by no natural cause or fault of the baby. Where was your "thinking mind" when you had unprotected sex??
I would suggest you to go with the pregnancy. God will give you strength and courage to bring up the baby.
In US thugh as far as I know, intentional abortion is not so easy unless there is problem in th epregnancy.
Think 100 imes before you do such a henious deed. Killing your own baby. His/her murder will b eon your hands..remember!

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