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Hi Mia!
Thanx a lot for acknowledging my views!
U knw what ur thoughts r very much like mine!
Well ,it was just a few mnths back that such thoughts were disturbing me(hubby's attention)which made me depressed many a times.I had been away frm him for a long time since i had gone to my mummy's house for delivery.so when i joined him my craving was sooo much that i starttd feeling depressed when he ignored me.

I told him directly many a times but in vain.Well actually he doesnt have any ego but he is not that kind of a man who expresses his feelings verbally.I did not knw what to do.so finally only thing i cd do was hv a control on this craving & i started thinking positively .i mean considering the good things in my life. i started taking my mind off such thoughts.

WHEN COMPARED TO ALL THE GOOD THINGS HE HAS(he doesnt smoke or drink,never hurts my feelings with harsh words,always buys me the best stuff,a very doting dad,etc etc) i felt this a a very trivial matter!

So all i wd like to say is UR POST CAME AT THE RIGHT TIME!

After reading so many views frm people like Jaili,swati etc., i feel a lot more better nw.( i admit before reading this i had a li'll bit of confusion as to was i expecting too much...and on the contrary,thinking well whats wrong in expecting frm the one who is ur world?)
Thanx a lot ....
U knw what frm a few days he is giving me lots of attention (natually ,ofcourse i mean not that he is responding to wht i said...i feel his work pressure was making him tired & i concluded tht he has lost interest...so stupid of me ,na?)

Well if we think alike why not be friends?
interested ,dear?
Its not safe to give personal information here.So do let me knw if u r interested in sharing thoughts & views with me, i'll let u knw of my email ID.

Hope to hear frm u sooon !Take care ,dear :-) MIA replied. Hey sudha ,How r u doing?!

Things r almost changing sudha,I feel the day we got in touch is luckyday and some how he iis changing alot.

He is looking after me well these days and surprised to c him changed.Whlile we r arguing, he is not at all prolonging and simply keeping quite and trying to cool with his pampers... MIA replied. Thanks for feeling me a friend!!

Know what ,we both r sailing in exactly same boat...My hubby is also giving me lotta attension once I decided to be firm in not craving...

While reading r message,I felt whether this is my hubby posted it by name SUDHA to c how I'm feeling now?!.If not I'm surprised enough to know how exactly u r going thru...what I'm here in ??!!!!

So,Sudha,Know what I did...After posting my last msg,that day itself something happened and I declared ..I'm nt gonna care him even .Since then,If I touched /talkedsweet to him ,accidentally...I started slapping myself...He felt baaaaddd to c me so..because ...after all he wants my pampering and my care towards him .he habituated to that...SO how cud he loose my pampers?!
So simply now he started getting some fav food stuff while coming home...and started payig attension to me while he is playin g with baby...That all I need...not praisings ,know!!

I hope for my coming b'day he'd definitely bring a surprise gift too!!
Let me wait for it!

Sudha,I'll give one id later after somedays...and hope you'll be here to c me again!

Hope you got what I meant!!