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Hi,
I had posted my problem here like a month back & and all of you had sent your advices from heart.
My husband's brother not genuine person.He lived in the same house where me and husband lived.He gave me all kinds of trouble.I was not even able to breath properly at my own home.He was everywhere around me.
Last month I had to tell my parents about what is going on and my mom & dad came here immediately.They confronted my husband about his brother and they gave no chance for anything.They just packed my stuff and got me back home.Did not even get a chance to see my husband.
My husband is from a large family and his relatives came one by one begging my parents to let me go and live with my husband,otherwise it will spoil their family name.That big brother ran away somewhere and hiding.
But my parents are still worried and no idea to send me back to my husband and scared about that big brother what me might do.I guess..
As for me I am not bothered about him.I know as much cheap he is that much he is a coward inside.
My only problem now is how it is going to be to go back to my husband.I love him.I miss him but will everything be the same I don't know.
He tried to talk to me few times but I refused.
If I want to go to him I can very easily convince my parents and leave or I can just go there by myself and let them know.But I am totally confused about this and don't know what to do.
S M replied. I am really really happy that you are safe and sound.

I had read your prob just last week and without knowing that it was already solved
I wrote my advice to you.

Anyways just try to talk to your hubby and as Suma has suggested clear out any kind of concerns you have regarding this issue with your hubby ,if you are not comfortable going over there yet why not call your hubby over at your place and when you need to talk go out together.

Ask him point blank but gently as to how things are going to be once you return.

Its always good to talk out these things ,since everything is out in the open .

Promise each other that no matter what that you guys are going to trust one another and go thru this together.

And also make it clear that in future both of you will confide in each other.

I think everything is going to work out just fine.


Don't worry dear.

All the best.

Have a pepper spray with you though, whenever you go out.

Better to be safe right???? Suma replied. Hi Wife,

You are so lucky that you got such a wonderful parents who can understand their daughter very well.

From my point of view, you should go and join your husband. But before going talk to your husband clearly and get a promise that such problems won't arise in future. Be firm and at the same time be polite.... do not ever rise your voice while talking.... then only he will understand the importance of your presence. If you don;t talk then later you may regret.
Have a happy family... Wish you all the best.