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I have 3 year old baby & living with ILs. ILs always taunt, and insult me, tell against me to husband. They always act/drama in front of hubby. They spoil all i do/plan. I am frustrated. sonu replied. hi
when a lady gets married she sacrfices enough and adjusts too by leaving her family and accepting strangers as her own family. why do women have to make this adjustment and sacrifice...what do men do nothing!!!! dont support their wifes...never speak up to their parents..becuase husbands cant do their duties properly thats why women have to take over and speak up.
DOnt stand for any rubbish...speak up for urself even if its to ur husband. Dont be a walkover all the time or ur forever wil be doing things u dont want to do.
Marriage is a compromise and if u husband cant give his 50% then u should not give 100%

all the best ss replied. thanks for all your replies. felt relieved that other dils are also undergoing same things. my il' s are backstabbers. they dont want me to spend time with my child, but only work. they threaten my husband about major steps they' ll take if their complaints are not solved. so he tells me to adjust/sacrifice. but how long can this go on. sonu replied. i used to be like u and let ils effect me...always used to be upset about their reactions, taunts etc..but now i just let it go over my head..they not worth it...mine think i have brainwashed my husband...lol what a joke...as my husband has never spoke a word to them or in my defence...they need to wake up..
i have a son of 15months and am pregnant with number and they are the most important people in my life..then come the pepple that care for me why waste time after people who always upset u.
yes its right they always think that dils have taken their sons away, god knows why they get them married.
u should just concentrate on ur children and making ur husband and urself happy, dont stress about people like that they not worth it. . and most importantly do what u feel is right its ur life and dont let others take ur life over.

good luck sonu bb replied. All il' s only want you to do what they want. we have our ideas/plans, but that donesnt matter. what i have learned, is to keep quiet, Pretend that you are ok. Focus on your child they will bring happiness. i have let my il' s make me so UNHAPPy for SO LONG!! i have wasted too much time. now i really try hard to ignore and be with my kids, because they will not let me mix too much with my own family, so i have nobody elase here. good luck! bb replied. All IL' s are like this. they think we are stealing their sons away from them