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Womens Issues:Pleaseeeeeee give me advice
2006-03-28
Name: sachi



hi,
i am 26 years old women, I married before 2 years, 3rd running. i have 1 year old daughter. My husbund working in pvt. company. I am also working ,my family menber is mil, husbund & daughter. But after 2 years my husbunds friends & bank persons came and told me, he has lots of debts. He borrowed for marriage, mothers operations etc.and he not pay the installments from last 6-7 months. so I realised he has near about 2.50 to 3 lakhs loan. housing loan is not included in this, housing loan installments id directly cut from his salary. So I told my father, then he paid some amount, near about 80 thousand. My salay is slao not sufficient to survive. I my daughter what about her. But my husbund not give me any idea about debts from last 2 & half years. Now i was shocked. what can I do now? I came from very well family. I am cheated?, But all his debts r at the time of marriage & after marriage taken.
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2006-03-29
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Anonymous Name: AGG
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Hi sachi

i understand the dilema u r in...but y dont u ask ur husband y he didnt tell u about it this long...but i think there is no use pondering over it at all...dont know y he possibly couldnt have told u about it... one thing is for sure..he had calculated as to how he was going to manage it...it seems something went wrong that he couldnt pay in the last 6 -7 months. whatever ur husband's answer is..it could a valid one or one that is a chauvenist kind of ...u have to be with ur husband all the time and support him and get out of the mess...atleast for the sake of ur daughter...

life cannot be the worst dear...God is there looking at us and something will come up and u will get a way out of this...things will get better soon...everyone has a bad phase in his/her life and it teaches great lessons...ur support will help him be stronger and he will love u more...just hang around with him and be strong...

Take Care and God bless...
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2006-03-30
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Anonymous Name: sachi
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Hi AGG,

Thanks for your commets & suggetions. I realy need this. I also think same, this is my bad phase, I must handle this for our family. There is always good & bad things in life. WE must face it, and i try to get aways from it.
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