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I do not know how to cope with my situation. After 10 long yrs of marriage I had an IVF which failed. During this period I came to know that I am not responding well with FSH injections. Only during ET I came to know that I do not have healthy egg. My doctor said that the embryo split into 2 but later did not split further inspite of it the doctor did the embryo transfer. After browsing the net I came to know that the embryo should split into 4 and later 8. The doctor should not have done this to me. I should say that doctors are money minded and do not care about the patient as they have to. I had to spend 2 lacs. We are not financially so well that we keep trying again and again. I always had a dream to have a small family. I feel shattered, depressed and useless. I am ready to go in for donor egg. Is it possible to do this in india, will it cost more. I am also ready to go in for donor embryo and adoption as well. I just want a child desperately. My husband is very supportive. I came to know that it is difficult for an NRI to adopt. I am unable to cope up with this situation.
ss replied. Hi sa
Your post does not give enough info about your situation and what all you have already tried? are you in india or USA? Going for a donor egg option in USA is quite expesive and does not cover by insurance. How many times have you tried for ivf ? Just one failed ivf does not mean that you cannot have successful ivfs down the line.. what is your age ? you still have good chance of sucessful ivf if you are not more than 40. Dr' s did not make a mistake by transfering 2 cell embroy since it was already there so rather than throwing it outside, they always prefer to put inside , just in case..
ss