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Hi all,

My daughter she is now 3 years old... her acton is making me to be more worried. Especially when i take her out to park or somewhere she acts very bad like hitting other kids, pushing them from top... if i yell at her she just screams like anything ...,, i find all kids on same age group they listens to their parents and vey obidient. Why my daughter is like that. She has no control... if i tell her do not do that she doesn' t listent to it she just ignores and yells and will give a hard pinch to me and runs..... so all parents and my freinds sourrounding really thinks bad about me and my husband as they feel there is a problem with her up bringing. They will not allow thier kids to play with my daughter. Initially they used to allow ... but now they stopped. This and all makes me to be more worried..

She screams, yells, cries, (this doesn' t looks normal sometime).

Freinds pls tell me.. Is this normal behavior for her age. What i should do in order to control her behavior. Due to her behavior no freinds gives attention to my talk. I feel really neglected. My self confidence is reducing day by day... I stat finding mistakes in me and going to depression.

I really need help from you freinds.

RamaKrishna replied. Don' t worry madam, it is all attitude problem. May be she is a single child.If we give more attention to them they behave so. If we just leave them to play arround in the park they will mixup with other children. kousalya replied. dont worry about her. being a mom of 4 yrs old boy[the same problem for me also] now my child has turned his attitude and becoming a good child.
things i followed are:
whenever we go outting , prior to outting we would tell him he should not harm any body if behaves like a good boy we give him some reward like snacks
telling him lot of moral stories like
abad boy[with the wrong things present in my child] and good child [things i want to do by him] those guys after becoming big god rewarded him [good one ]all good things and the bad one with nothing like that .
so you can also create tell your child your one stories
child instead of punishing her for wrong things just start crying [acting]
that bcoz of her your are crying defnitely she will tell you she won' t do such things. try to tell her that god will punish her if she does harm to others. we you slum people tell she they dont have any good bcoz the we bad like her when they are kid thats god punished them. so she should be good to others. if she pinches you
try to act asif you got very much also you put a bandage and start crying. if she ask slowly explain her that its bad habit and tell stories like things she did to other some other girl so she got much punishment from god
please give lots of hugging and kisses
if she does any good tell your hubby before her that she did good thing and both of you should clap and praise her
ask to go for cycling, using crayons to
colour watch tv cartoons with her eg tom and jerry . try to keep her on your lap and explain stories
finally time cures every thing
have faith in your god , while praying ask her to pray. if she goes to school every thing will be ok
best of luck i will also pray for child