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2006-03-10

Name: confused girl hi all..im 23yrs old girl n soon getting married.i hav some question about married life..which r making me afraid n confused -------- ive heard that 1st time having intercourse is too painfull 4 females n it may cause bleeding.is this tru?does evry girl go through it?wats its quantity...how painful it could be??im really very afraid of it..plz dont make fun of it...answer me according to ur expereience and knowledge...i shall b v thnkful 2 u....bye

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2006-03-11

Name: Mita
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Dont believe in all this

Dear Friend,

I also got married at 23 and like every married woman, I will tell you that intercourse is NOT painful. Also, not every woman who has intercourse for the first time bleeds - and there is no \";bleeding\"; as such - only few drops of blood.
Please remove all the fear and negative thoughts about intercourse. Try and meet your future husband often or talk to him on the phone - just be good friends first - the more comfortable you are with each other, the more easy it will be express your love physically.

Have a happy married life.....
Mita

2006-03-11

Name: confused girl
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thanks MITA dear

thanks alot mita dear 4 making my opinion clear.ya ihave very good friendship wid my fiance,but we both r very shy we hav never talked abt Sex...but we both love each other alot..we hav a good understanding..we hav expressed all our feelings ...but never hav disscussed about sex....is it ok???? thanks alot.....hav a good life
urs sincerly

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