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Hello everyone,
This happens in every family. I have been married from last 5 yrs. My mother in-law is good but till date I could not understand her, whats going in her mind. My husband is the only child. Twice or thrice a month, she argues or fights with me without any specific reason. My husband & my father-in-law used to takes her sight even if she' s wrong. That periond, I feels so alone & think of divorce but I have a 4 yrs daughter & I do still love my in-laws & husband. I don' t understand how to tackle all this. I always tries to live happy & adjustable with them. helppriya replied. I really understand your position as I am in the same situation. My husband is an only child and we live with my inlaws. whenever my mother inlaw fires or shouts at me for no reason, my father in law and husband always take her side. I too feel lonely then and want to separate from my husband. But that is not the solution. To avoid my MIL' s ways , I have my own life. I work and enjoy at my workplace and then I dont feel lonely and manipulated. otherwise, my MIL rules in the house. get yourself busy in some productive work and get involved in other things,. Enjoy your life on ur own and dont give her importance on such occasions. Also talk to your husband abt it. explain to him how u adjust to his parents and how she behaves with you. unless u let him know your feelings he will never understand them.All the best!