Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hello everybody,
Like everyone in this forum I am also a victim of infertility.Trying since 3 yrs but in vain..I am seeing one Reproductive Endocrinologist in NY,USA.I stay in NJ.This is my second doc.was not satisfied with the first one..anyways my problems are ..my periods are totally irregular..I cant say when it' ll happen and how long it' ll be ..sometimes I spot continuously for a month or some time spot twice or thrice a month...I faced so many prob just bcoz of my irregular periods since I had it...went to may docs tried everything nothing worked for me...and now I' ve been diagnosed with PCOS hav cyst in right and left ovary..I dont ovulate at all..and watever tablets r prescribed (Provera,Clomid) nothing works for me..all this is making me totally disappointed but I never thot wat more was waiting for me...coz i was diagnosed with Endometrial Hyperplasia with Atypia ie my endometrial ining was the thickest they have ever seen which also has precancerous cells..they said there is 10 chance that it' ll bcome full cancer...so i had a D&C and was given Provera but soon aftr just 3 months It came back bcoming more thicker and Doc is totally scarred herself..she told me forget abt getting preg now ,it' s ur health wchih I am concetned abt now plus she told me I also have Hepatitis C...now I am totally shattered..I cant concentrate on my work..all i do is browsing and getting more and more info regarding this..I cant even share my heart ache 2 anyone so i poured it here..i feel i am a cursed girl..dont know wat will happen...am scarred to death...so my doc has referred me 2 a Cancer specialist..to top it all here I face so many problems to get an immediate appointment with the doctor in US....Dont know what 2 do..I was parying for a baby and c now I' ve so many problems ki dont know what not 2 prayer 2 God...dont know y he is doing this 2 me..am loosing hope..so scarred...pls guide me what i shud do.....all my dreams r blurring....and hus is crazy abt babies ..he is supportive but at he same time deeply hurt...dear frnds..pls help me 2 get thru this situation or anyone who had similar problems and if anyone can suggest the best RE in NY/NJ...I wud be grateful 2 u all for taking ur time and giving me any guidance...looking 4ward 2 ur advices...Rememebr me in ur paryers :( madhuri kapoor replied. Hi shamool

I really felt very bad about your situation. i am suffering with infertility too so i know the pain. i can' t tell you to forget everything and be happy but there is solution for everything. I have seen people suffering from a variety of problems but still so confident and happy. that is what i learned after coming to US. I would like to suggest you to please read this book
\" You can heal your life\" by Louise Hay.
that should really help you.

nivi replied. Hi Shamol,
One thing i wl ever beleive is prayers,Pray to Jesus Christ he can do miracles.Jut reply me after u meet the doc.Keeping u n my prayers. sa replied. We can really understand your problem. The pain of infertility is itself too much for us to cope and on top of it your medical condition really is a matter of concern. It is easy to advise but it is really hard to face the reality. Inspite of all the problems we have to try to live happily. Try to relax yourself, start meditation and take a second opinion regarding the treatment either in NY or back home so that there will be some near and dear ones to support you emotionally. Take care ruvi replied. Hi Shamol, read your story.....really feeling sorry for you. But you see all of us, who are suffering frm this wierd problem of infertility, are going thru the toughest phase of their lives. Think abt those who dun hv any problme, everything is normal, but the baby cudnt be conceived....n on top of that, no doctor knows wat n hw to treat you. I know...it is real pain n very hard to come to terms...that you cant hv a baby of your own....but after reading many adoption stories here in this forum....I think this is the best option for the persons like us. Si dun be depressed...there are millions of people like you here in this world....fighting bravely thru this hardship of life. But nobdy can do anything here. So it is better you cheer up....take care of your health....adopt a baby.....n keep pouring your heart here in this forum. This is a gud forum as nobdy tries to make fun of you.....nobdy questns you...so you are really comfortable telling all your worries n concern to the people like you. We can form a group of friends here in this forum itself so as to keep in touch....n keep encouraging each other.

take care n best wishes Kumari replied. I just read your sad story ..well I am not a doctor ..but I ' m a Christian ..there' s total healing, physical & mental healing in Christ Jesus. Maybe He is your last option ...

..you are NOT cursed, you were born a victim of ypur circumstance, the environment you live, its toxicity, pollution had affected your body, and of course your parents ' genetics' have brought you to this situation...

If its Okay, I' d love to pray for you ..pls ask!

GOD is with you Shamol and he loves you both.
Kumari