Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

hello everyone
this is sapna.
i have a 5 year old child. after the first delivery, i conceived again the nect year but underwent an abortion since the next pregnancy was too early. also the doctor placed multiload as an contraceptive tht time only.

now i am trying for my second child since last 1 year after getting the multiload removed. but am not able to conceive.
i know god is punishing me now for my mistake.
i recently started visting this site and am really happy to see the way ppl advise n help each other.
i feel in such cases even words of encouragement mean a lot.
i went to dr nalini mahajan of mother n child hospital.
she asked me to take treatment for tb since my blood test for myrobacterium was positive and come for tube test the same month.
but i read tht if i hv tb , it spreads if i get hsg done
dont knw wht is right or wrng
first place i dont knw i hv tb or nt.
i hv nt done any specific test 4 tht.
pls guide me d expert ppl here wht shd i do
hsg or tb test(endometrial biopsy).
are these tests very painful?

thnx 4 ur support n time

pls take out some time n guide me
wish everyone here all d best
sapna veen replied. Sapna. By your post I feel that you are really worried. I think you should get things under control one at a time.
1. First see if you hv TB, if yes then get treated.
2. Once you are ready to get preg, go for it
3. GOD punishing you...I don' t think so. If you believe in GOD so much then just think that GOD only gave you that decision of abortion. He plays tricks so just think its one of them. You have not done anything wrong.

I' m sure that you will get pregnant...but you need to calm yourself first.