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Hi,

When you are all set with your perfectly planned family of two, and then you unexpectedly get pregnant, what should one do? Terminate and then focus on raising the first two well, or go ahead and have the baby-even though this was not planned. hello replied. hi

i think 'm yoo late to write a reply for this but now only i saw this.

dear freind, iknow the situation, but i think life is given by god

SURE V CAN'T CREATE LIFE.

so dear friend, my opnion, don't go for a termination, uless it is really bad for ur health.

if u r healthy, no problem dear, SOMETIMES THIS 111 ONE MAY BE THE ONE WHO IS GOING TO LOVE U MORE THAN ANYONE. don't know.

the little one is also a human being. looking towards the mother and hopng that u'll take care of her.

HE/SHE IS THE SAME CHILD LIKE THE TWO U R HAVING.

y can't u understand that. THE ONLY DIFFERENCE IS NOW HE/SHE IS N THE WOMB.

SO DON'T TAKE A NEGATIE DECISION, ONLY BECAUSE THE LITTLE ONE IS HELPLESS CAN'T PROTEST. HE IS LOOKNG TOWARDS U AND SAYNG, MOM, DAD I LOVE U. I'M THE FRUIT OF UR LOVE. I DIDN'T DO ANYTHING TO HARM U. PLEASE LET ME LIVE AMMA.

sure honey, he/ she is our PRECIOUS CHILD'.
LOVE HIM/HER MORE/. DEFINITELT HE/SHE IS A PART OF UR FAMILY NOW. WITHOUT HIM/HER ITS INCOMPLETE, IT S A LIFE.U CANNOT SELLTLE WITHOUT ONE OF UR OWN CHLD RIGHT



LAST, DEAR, IF U HAVVVE DONE ALREADY A NEGATVE DECISON.

O.K GORGET ABOUT WHAT I WROTE ABOVE.FORGET .

BUT PLAEASE DO ONE THING BEFORE THAT.

APOLOGISE TO UR CHILD. TO GOD.

LOVE ALL KDS. ESPECIALLY ORPHANS.

FORGET ABOUT WHAT U HAVE DONE. ITS O.K.
BE HAPPY.
Sharda replied. Did you think of giving the kid for adoption. I know a number of people who are desperate to get a baby for adoption (including my sister). So please think about it and do let me know your thots. Tony S replied. I have 2 kids spaced 1 yr. 10 months and I was pregnant for the third time when my second child was about to turn 1. This was obviously unplanned. Me and my husband decided to discontinue with the pregnance and I also got tubectomy done to avoid a similar problem in the future. I experienced little sadness because I used to get dreams of a baby in a blue dress but as time passed I came out of it. So decide on what u want in your life - set your priorities right. It is great to have 2 kids on whom u can concentrate rather than the no. of kids. Also u r putting your health at risk. So all the best in deciding.