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2008-08-27

Name: ciya sharma Hi,
After 7 months of our marriage,we are devoid of intercourse.Initially i had fear of intercourse pain.My husband helped to overcome it,but we couldn' t able to do it.Now my husband dont have any interst in sex.I insist him many times but he runs from it.I am very frustated.Please help me.Thanks for your support.

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2008-12-17

#61

Name: ciya
Subject:

urgent help

hi Peter

i have sent you many offline messages at your yahoo-id but didnt get any reply.I wanted your advice urgently.
Please help me.

Thanks
ciya

2009-01-30

#62

Name: sanya
Subject:

I am going thru same problem......help me

do ypu have any suggestion.......

2008-12-18

#63

Name: Pete
Subject:

Hi Ciya,

I got an IM from and ID Ragx S Gxxc. Is that yours. I have put in the xx for security reasons. Shoot me an e-mail its the same

Cheers!

2008-11-20

#64

Name: ciya sharma
Subject:

its urgent

Pete i want to take some advice from u online.please tell me your chat-id in yahoo or....
pls tell me asap.ciya

2008-11-25

#65

Name: Pete
Subject:

e-mail and chat ID

Hi Ciya,

My yahoo chat and mail id is the same.

Well these days i work in the nighshit and so you will be able to reach me only between 9 pm until 5 am. In case you dont see me online during the regular morning hours, you can send me an e-mail or offline message.

Hope all is well and take care.

cheers

Pete

2008-09-25

#66

Name: Pete
Subject:

How is it going? Hope you have not given up!

Hi Ciya,

How are you and how are things going on now. Hope you have not given up. If you have, then take this message as booster dose and start over. Dont be deppress, keep going.

Take Care

Pete

2008-11-12

#67

Name: ciya sharma
Subject:

hi Pete

Things are little better now.We have consulted sexologist.He said us to try regularly.My husband has started trying for it.But we are unable to do it.I have a big fear of pain in my mind.I dont get excited due to it.

2008-09-04

#68

Name: Pete
Subject:

Nobody can hurt your mind without your consent!

Hi Ciya,

What has happend in the past is past. I am talking about the fight you had with hubby. Well couples have fights and they get back, this is common and natural. So dont feel guilty about it. What you are going through gives you enough reason to fight. Now since all these are not giving you results, I would suggest you to take some time out and spend more time thinking about you and get into some activities that interest you most.

You can continue with your dressing at home. Ignore him totally and dont keeping hurting yourself thinking about it. Give some time to it and in the mean time get involved in something u like. If you are working, try picking up new subjects. If you are a home maker, try out readin books, new recipies, may be pick up music leasson. Again all based on your time avaialability.

So relax first. Been frustrated and angry spoils your mind and body. When you dont get anything in return being in that state, its better not to be in that state.

Its easy for me or others to give you suggestion. But only YOU and YOU can change your life. I am sure you can and you will be happy.

Cheer!

Pete

2008-09-02

#69

Name: Pete
Subject:

Time and Patience!

Hi Ciya,

I can very well understand your frustration. However the human mind is complicated and there is no quick fix to it. So give it some time Ciya. The only way to get an instant response is to point a gun on his head. But I am sure you do not want to do that.

What we are trying to achieve is to get your hubby body and soul to get to the act. So relax and give it some time. I know its frustrating, but you need to give time.

Any discussion on this before 30 days would not be fruitful. So lets close this discussion on this topic for the next 30 days. In the coming 30 days you need to diligently do things as per planned or you can completely ignore him. I am positive this will work. Wish you good luck.

You can post if you get some positive response. I will log in after 30 days, if I dont see any positive response even then, I will guide you with more actions.

Cheers!

Pete

2008-09-02

#70

Name: ciya sharma
Subject:

Hi Pete,

There was a lot of frustation in my mind.Consequently i had a terrible fight with my hubby on the topic last week.I was desperate and discussed with him the same topic many times.

Have i done wrong?
Confused ciya.

2008-08-30

#71

Name: Pete
Subject:

Time

Hi Ciya,

I am sorry to hear it did not work in the first try. Man my nature likes SEX and has SEX in his mind. No man can stay for long without having sex especially when he has a woman next to him. I like to think positive and do not want to jump into a conclusion regarding your Hubby.

Be patient, many at time things dont work fast. Dont lose hope. Keeping in mind that Man loves SEX, keep yourself dressed seductively at home as you may not know when his interest would arise. Since he did not resiprocate in a positive way and got angry, let the touching happen only once in a while, you can reduce it or probaby use is on occasion and not always. Or you could even stop doing it.

It hard to spend ones days with your desires not met. This gets worst especially after marriage. But life needs to go on. So I would suggest you to keep your desires met by keeping yourself happy with mastrubation. Well if you dont get it then you do it yourself. If he is still cold, probably you can totally ignore him on this and keep yourself engaged with your work. I am sure if this continues he will defintely come closure to you. No man like to be ignored. This will take time and I would suggest you to keep trying and be patient.

So go ahead Ciya. The end objective is for you and your Hubby to have a healthy and satisfying physical life. So dont worry, don' t lose hope. Things will work out, give it sometime. If things don' t change in 45 days then we can think of new strategies.

Cheers!

Pete

2008-08-31

#72

Name: ciya
Subject:

hi

pls tell any other solution.i am very disturbed.even i am unable to get sleep.
depressed ciya.

2008-08-28

#73

Name: Pete
Subject:

Seduce him

Hi Ciya,

This is kind of a serious problem. But not to worry, there is nothing in this world without a solution. Do as mentioned here.

One of the biggest challenge is that your hubby is not interested even when you directly ask him for sex. Lets find other way to attract him.

1. Visual: Wear seductive clothes at home. Something that exposes your cleaveage and ocationally your thigs. I leave the creativity for you. The idea is to visually get him attracted.

2. Touch: While he is sitting or lying down or watching TV, you could sit next to him and start running your fingers all over him slowly. Special attention to his chest and genetial. Again I leave the creativity to you.

3. I am sure he will get turned on on this. Take him to the bed and do lots of foreplay until your vagina is wet. Once its wet ask him to penetrate slowly and you guys can enjoy good sex.

4. Just in case you guys are not able to do it at this time too, dont worry tell him to use your thigh and get his sperm out. you can put some oil or cream between your thigh the closer to your V is the best. Once he get the pleasure then he will get the interest to try and peneterate you.

This will surely help you Ciya. So stop worrying and do it with confidence.

Cheers!

Pete

2008-08-30

#74

Name: ciya
Subject:

hi Pete,

It has become very difficult to adjust.He is not living happily with me and i am also very depressed.
We are totally different in nature.
When i do the things which you suggested me,he becomes irritated and says" these are the not only things in the life" .Actually he is great workholic and dont have interest in lovemaking.I am just opposite.I have become very depressed.
Thanks.

2008-08-28

#75

Name: ciya
Subject:

Thanks Pete

Thanks Pete,i will do as you said.I hope it would work.

2008-08-27

#76

Name: ciya
Subject:

please help me its urgent

please answer me at the earliest.i am waiting for the answer eagerly.
desperate ciya.
thanks.

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