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hi
iam bascially from bbay city married for past 7 years & living in southindia. my husband gives me lot of love sex money comfortable life etc in this village that iam staying in but when we go to bbay he never takes me to any parties. he parties a lot as he is always travelling abroad or to bbay & then he tells me that he will take me for parties & he never does ? is this behaviour normal for all men ? is it insecurity ? how do i deal with such situation? grl replied. Why is your husband insecure? It seems like you guys need to communicate with each other about how you are really feeling and be honest with each other. If you think that he is sleeping around, that's a serious issue and again, you need to talk to you husband about it. Try not to accuse him of anything, just have an open conversation about your relationship. You should be able to trust each other and if you are starting to have doubts, you really need to talk about it. If you are not comfortable doing it by yourself, see if you can to a marriage counselor. Make him feel comfortable and tell him that you are concerned about some issues and you would like to discuss it with him. I wouldn't rely on some astrologer to tell me what my husband is doing. Marriage is a serious commitment and honesty, trust, and communication, among other things are the key to a successful marriage.

Good luck! grl replied. Talk to you husband and see what's going on. If he refuses to take you with him when he goes clubing, just go out on your own or with your own friends and forget about him! That will teach him a lesson.