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2003-09-24
Name: need help



hello friends, pardon my intrusion. i am not a member of this board but i need all of your suggestions as i am in a big dilemma now. i am a 24 year old female. we have been trying to get pregnant since a while but i could not as i am not ovulating. doctor wants to put me on clomid. she said it makes more than one egg to be released in a month so the chances of twins or triplets is more! i am really worried now because i am underweight already. my height is 5'4\"; and weight is 94 pounds. i am already very much worried to get pregnant even with one child because of my weight. i always worry that i may not have a healthy baby or my baby would end up premature. with all these worries in mind, i cant even dare to think of having twins or triplets. what should i do now? is it ok if an underweight girl gets pregnant with twins? i love kids very much and very upset that i have to face such a situation. i know having twins is double joy but because of my weight i am not able to think anything now. please help me. any suggestion is welcome. thanks friends in advance.

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2003-09-28
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Anonymous Name: Maitrali
Subject:  Very Very sorry



Dear Friend,
I am very very sorry. Really I havent read your message properly.
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2003-09-29
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Anonymous Name: need help
Subject:  its ok



its ok maitrali. thanks anyway!
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2003-09-25
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Anonymous Name: Maitrali
Subject:  Hi



Hi,
U are young. why donnt u wait. First reduce waight. If u controlled food and do regular excercise u can reduce waight in 6 month. then try to concive. Its really good for u and your baby.
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2003-09-25
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Anonymous Name: need help
Subject:  reduce weight



hello maitrali thanks for your reply. but i think you didn't go through my message properly. i am not an overweight woman. i am UNDERWEIGHT. that is why i am so much worried.
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2003-09-24
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Anonymous Name: Tina
Subject:  dont worry



i have heard of people who have taken clomid and given birth to healthy babies both single babies and twins. so dont worry. everything will be fine. god has a good plan and it will work
good luck
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2003-09-25
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Anonymous Name: need help
Subject:  thanks



thanks tina for your reply. yeah god is great. hope he will solve all my worries soon. happy pregnancy to all of you my dear caring friends. good luck.
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2003-09-24
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Anonymous Name: xyz
Subject:  Don't worry



Hey i was having irregular cycles and when i tried to become pregnant , the doc put me on clomid too.i concieved with only one baby.But then i had a miscarriage and again after a year i took clomid and became pregnant again now and this time also we saw only one in my ultrasound.though the doctors say the chances of having more than one is high it all depends..so don't worry about this.If you are underweight it does not mean that your kids will not be healthy.
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2003-09-25
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Anonymous Name: need help
Subject:  thanks



thanks xyz for your reply. i am really glad that you are pregnant again. take very good care of your health. i am sure you will soon have a beautiful little one in your arms. getting reply from somebody who used clomid really made me happy. thanks once again.
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2003-09-24
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Anonymous Name: Mansi
Subject:   dont worry




I do know a lady who like u was underweight and was pregnant with twins. She is now doing fine with her 2 year old twin girls :-) So pls dont worry. Try to consult a dietician and check out whether u need to make any serious change in your diet. Start taking the prenatal vitamin tabs and believe in God. I am sure everything will be fine.

Ours prayers will be there for you.

Mansi
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2003-09-29
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Anonymous Name: need help
Subject:  mansi



thanks a lot mansi. i am really gald to have a friend like you. yeah i live in US and i will surely check this book. your replies are of great help to me. i feel much better now. thanks so much. take care and happy pregnancy!
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2003-09-29
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Anonymous Name: Mansi
Subject:   good day




The lady I was telling about is a non-veg but she said there is nothing to worry about being a veg while u are pregnant. Anyway if you live in US check in your library for 'What to expect when you are expecting'. This book has a detailed write up on vegetarian diet when you are planning for a baby. It also says you need to take an extra intake of calcium and some vitamins. Check for that book and also try to consult a good dietician.

I dont know whether this answer was helpful but will keep u posted if I hear anything more that will be useful for you.

Take care
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2003-09-26
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Anonymous Name: need help
Subject:  thanks mansi



i am very thankful to you mansi for caring so much about my situation. please let me know as soon as you get her mail. i am eagerly waiting here to hear from her. please take care of your health. thanks a lot once again.
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2003-09-25
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Anonymous Name: Mansi
Subject:   promise




I will do that. Will let u know in 2-3 days. She lives in India so let me try contacting her by mail or phone.

Till then... dont worry & keep a peaceful mind.

luv,
Mansi
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2003-09-25
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Anonymous Name: need help
Subject:  thanks



thanks very much mansi for the reply. it really made me feel better that an underweight woman like me has healthy twins. can i ask you something. is she also a pure vegetarian? can you ask her for me how she managed to get all the nutrition babies need while pregnant?
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