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Hi, I am married female 30 with one baby girl who is 4 yrs i was having very happy life and love marriage me and my husband are very happy with each other and fully satisfied, my husband has exports business and travel worlwide suddenly this year on holi my mother in law said my husband that i had a affair with the driver we all know she is crak but my husband ask me again and again plz tell if any relation i have explained him that its all created thing of her mother he belives that but again every week he ask plz tell me if you had done some thing wrong please help me what should i doo Ananynm replied. Hi,

U can adjust to anything ur MIl does but definitely not to this kind of abuse.As a first thing change the driver and speak to ur MIl with ur hubby.Make it very very clear that u won' t tolerate any kind of character abuse.Because when u don' t react outrageous in such cases,ur MIL might try to say that it is true.And also as an Indian wife u r expected not to be calm when some one speaks of ur character help replied. hi,
asked ur mil in front of ur husband abt wat she said to ur husband and why she said that .

and strongly asked ur husband to change the driver orbetter u do it by urself.

end this story now coz if this keeda of shaq is in his mind then it will grow with time and can destroy ur relationship.
so end it now.
bye Rashmi replied. why don' t u confront u' r mil as to why she has said this....infront of u' r hubby. If u have done no wrong then trust me she can' t put u down. She has to have SOME explanation as to why she has said this. Today she has said this tomorrow she can make u some more stories..u need to end this now.

As to the driver....if u' r hubby is even feeling 1% doubt..tell him..u don' t care..u can keep a new driver. I know u must be feeling bad...but for 1 sec think from u' r husband' s side...he is traveling a lot and not there for u all the time -emotional as well as physically..and maybe he feels a bit insecure..and feels since he is not there u might look elsewhere...and of all the people it' s his mother who has told him such stories...it does tend to make a person doubt a bit. Keep reassuring him and ask him what can u say or do to make him beleive u.
All the best...hope thimgs work out