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hi there,
iam a wife and a mother of a 31/2 yr old daugter i have a small and a cute family iam really confused, recently ive come across a big problem of a suspicion that my husband is seeing someone , when i asked him about the so called affair he denied and said she is just a friend. i also checked his mobile and i saw few massages sent to her mobile which are a bit suspicious but those massages are like \";how are u? how is ur health\"; \";happy friendship day \";and not the kind of love massages. he also told me that the is suffering from blood cancer and she his friends sis'. but i wonder that why my husband is so concerned about her,is there really an affair going or iam wrong, iam very much confused my husband is very loving caring towards me i too love him alot and i dont want to break my cute family please someone help me and advice me genuinely as iam very much disturbed and worried..... nisha replied. hi,
I think you are just suspecting your husband. He might have felt pity on that lady who is suffering from Blood cancer. He must be trying to make her happy in her last days. What you can do is go and meet that lady with your husband. Tell your husband i want to see that lady and when you go, see how is her behaviour with you and your husband. If ur husband is telling true u can also support him otherwise still you find it suspicious tell him that u dont like he remain in much contact with that lady. You can tell your husband that instead of you i can give her support in her last days and try my best to help her but u plz dont concern much about her. uncommon_senses replied. I have an understanding with my wife, which makes sense. As a married couple, I can have a female friend only if this female friend agrees to be buddy buddy with the both of us. I will not accept her to be only my friend, we (my wife and myself) are a package deal. The same applies to the male friends my wife has. This has helped us keep a healthy relationship and that too a clean one. We've been together 11 yrs and married 8 (no kids so far). Other opinions appreciated.