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i m really depressed with my family relation?can u any hlp me? we married 4 year back, we hv a 3 yr old sweet baby. and wife is pregnant again. from last 4 year our relation is carring too poorly. number of the time we end the topic with divorce. i m not blaming her, but she has the problem to carry out the complains. i mean to say. if we r discussing about food, she will start 4 year back story and start fighing on that topic. even she absuse me very dirty language. i really fed up with all this. this time she is asking for divorce. but i m not ready for that, because i do not want to expoil my daughter' s life. please guide me
Lakshmi replied. Your wife would have gone through a post partum depression after her first delivery which would have gone unnoticed. Thats one reason why she could behave like this. Another reason could be the horonal changes which normally causes these problems. Take her to a doctor and find out if she has any problems like that. Find out what she likes the most and present her with that. Now that she is pregnant, try cooking on weekends and please her. She might be tired now. If you help her with the kithcen chores at this time, she might feel alittle more comfortable. Also when she is in a good mood, explain her that divorce is not the solution for all problems. Remember it would affect ur sweet 3 year old baby and also the one you are xpecting shortly. If these options does not work, you need to take her to a psychatrist. She might have some unknown fear int he corner of her heart which she may not be aware of. Deal with her patiently. She may not be doing all this with her own knowledge. There are some people who talk very badly but have no intentions deep in their mind to talk that way