Dear friends,

My grandmom passed away 2 days back. I was very attached to her, but since she was in ICU they did not allow me to meet her except i could cath a glance of her for few seconds, just one time. I have been so upset since then. Thankfully my hubby has been by my side to take care.

My in laws are always busy with work or travelling. These days i feel very lonely and insecure. Though i know once my baby is her my hubby and my parents are always there for me!! I will be going to my moms house for my delivery in Mumbai - where i also stay. But right now i need to be of support to her also. At the same time i have very less time to plan so many other things related to my pregnancy and baby shopping etc.
Ive been goign through many mood swings. Just thought sharing my thoughts with you all will make me feel better. Thanks!

Hope you are all doing ok.

Love
Rids shazia replied. Hi Riddhi,

Very sorry about ur Gmom. I Know how u must be feeling. Just pray for her.

I too was very very close to my nani.i miss her so much.

U take care of urself and try to be happy cos if u get upset it will affect a lot on the baby. u must be knowing abt that. So take care of urself and the little one.

with Luv and prayers,
shazia

So Rids replied. Dear Mon, Nandini, Susmitha, Chinky

Thanks for your messages. It did cheer me up. Feels good to hear from people who feel the same way! Im feeling much much better now and im going to stay at my moms house for 3-4 days. So i will get a good change.

Hope all of you are doing fine.

Love
RIds mon replied. hey rids, soory about your grandmom. But u have to be strong in this time and remember that this is one stage of life where god helps ur prepare to be strong..maybe that's why we are all given nine months...to be strong emotionally and to be independent. i am alone too and have felt really lonely all through my pregnancy coz there was no one to care for me...but now i feel its just made me more self-dependent. remember ur soon gonna experience the joy of a new life..whose gonna be with u all the time...will need u all 24 hrs and then u'll never be lonely...think on it and take care and keep smiling

nandini replied. hi rids
very sorry to know about ur grandmother.
hey we are there whenever u feel like talking.
i think this is the time when we are so lonely and wish someone wld just sit with us and just talk to us or just spend time with us.
but most of us are just not that lucky to get that privilege
but u kn what there are many on this board with this same feeling so we can give our time to ech other and share the warmth.
so chin up and smile gods always there with u.
and we are there to talk with u.
luv nandini. susmitha replied. Hi,
sorry for the loss. Be strong. I have a grandmother and I know how much we attached to them. I'm worrying abt her daily but God's grace she's fine. Have faith and be cool .
susmitha chinky replied. hi rid,sorry abt ur gmom.but take care just 4 ur baby.and ur husband is also with u so do not feel alone.i am also alone but i m happy just 4 my kid.just take care and be happy 4 a little life inside u.everything will be allright. chinky