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2005-08-10

Name: charu Hi evrybody,
I have a very strange problem ,when i am with my friends and suppose my close friend try to ignore me and give more importance to other friend and they became more intimate with each other ,I feel very neglected ,kinda jealous,feel very bad sad and crazy..I start hating my frnd who ignored me or gave me less importance..I always want that my close friend should always look at my face and talk to me more than other..is this normal..dont kno..feel so bad ..it changes my attitude and behaviour to my close friend and keep her at bay..dont know what 2 do..pls guide me what i should do at such situations how i should react and behave?I want to b frndly iwth evryone ?pls help me...

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Hi evrybody,
I have a very strange problem ,when i am with my friends and suppose my close friend try to ignore me and give more importance to other friend and they became more intimate with each other ,I feel very neglected ,kinda jealous,feel very bad sad and crazy..I start hating my frnd who ignored me or gave me less importance..I always want that my close friend should always look at my face and talk to me more than other..is this normal..dont kno..feel so bad ..it changes my attitude and behaviour to my close friend and keep her at bay..dont know what 2 do..pls guide me what i should do at such situations how i should react and behave?I want to b frndly iwth evryone ?pls help me... De replied. Charu....
You need to learn to let go. I think your problem area is that you dont feel the need to control your reactions when such things happen. You still believe that you are justified in feeling jealous. You feel justified in wanting everybodys attention for yourself. Maybe you assosiate attention with power or being wanted. That is not the case you know!

Anyways...if you REALLY WANT to change then try to consiously take some action when such thing happens again. Just let go. try to stop your mind and heart from going in the normal direction....instead try to change how you think about the situation.

Good Luck! M32DELHI replied. Hi Charu if U can speak to me regarding this.
Does it happen with everybody or just with the one u like most.
R u in love with someone.
All friends happen to be same.
Initially I had same problem but i overcome this.
CALL me at nine eight one zero two eight five zero zero one M32DElhi replied. Hi Charu
I think u r too possessive about ur friend.
Just thing r u in same position when u talk to others.
Can u show same interest to your friend while talking to other friend.
If there is good bonding between two,then it doesn't matter to whom you talk/walk.
Confidence,honesty is must in relationship.

So i don't agree with you. in this age be broadminded.
Just talking or even walking along doest mean that friendship is about to break.

2005-08-22

Name: De
Subject:

Hi Charu

Charu....
You need to learn to let go. I think your problem area is that you dont feel the need to control your reactions when such things happen. You still believe that you are justified in feeling jealous. You feel justified in wanting everybodys attention for yourself. Maybe you assosiate attention with power or being wanted. That is not the case you know!

Anyways...if you REALLY WANT to change then try to consiously take some action when such thing happens again. Just let go. try to stop your mind and heart from going in the normal direction....instead try to change how you think about the situation.

Good Luck!

2005-08-16

Name: M32DELHI
Subject:

To Charu: Speak to me

Hi Charu if U can speak to me regarding this.
Does it happen with everybody or just with the one u like most.
R u in love with someone.
All friends happen to be same.
Initially I had same problem but i overcome this.
CALL me at nine eight one zero two eight five zero zero one

2005-08-11

Name: M32DElhi
Subject:

To charu

Hi Charu
I think u r too possessive about ur friend.
Just thing r u in same position when u talk to others.
Can u show same interest to your friend while talking to other friend.
If there is good bonding between two,then it doesn't matter to whom you talk/walk.
Confidence,honesty is must in relationship.

So i don't agree with you. in this age be broadminded.
Just talking or even walking along doest mean that friendship is about to break.

2005-08-11

Name: charu
Subject:

Hi,
i know u r right..but this is not with my one frnd its with evryone am close 2..as u said i become very possessive about evryone..wat i shud do to overcome this..i try to attract evryones attention 2wards me i thinkand wen i dont get that i become ver crazy and narrow minded...start hating that person.

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