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Joint Family:Sleeping Pills.....
2007-01-15
Name: PP



Hi frds,

I am living in a joint family and facing the humilation and tana frm my in laws....

my hubby always takes my in laws side and i have accepted this as his nature...

next week my hubby and his mom are planning to go to SIL function leaving me at home.... my MIL always does like this.. she never takes my along and if i do the same (by chance) than there is lot of drama at home... after marriage we have never gone out for a movie without our MIL....

this tm i don't want him to go to attend the function bec SIL insulted me a lot during her recent visit at our place... (bithing and all)

shall i give 1 or 2 sleeping pills to my hubby so that he shd not wake up in the mor to catch the train... if yes than which one????? or any other medicine due to which he feels slightly unwell......

THIS TM I JUST DONT WANT TO GO HIM... this way my MIL shows her upper hand... its very depresing for me.... no use of discussing with hubby.....
PLZ HELP IF THERE IS ANY OTHER WAY OUT...
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2007-01-17
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Anonymous Name: mumbles
Subject:  STAND UP!



The only way out is to assert yourself. Don't give your husband sleeping pills or any others medicine to make him ill as all you will be doing is breaking the law. I really do wish you strength because it is going to take quite a bit of inner power for you to start turning things around. Have faith in yourself, treat yourself with respect & expect it from others, things will begin to change
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2007-05-09
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Anonymous Name: vini
Subject:  Be bold



Dear ,

I have experienced same problem long time back.
But giving pills to ur hubby is not a solution of your problem, you shld be bold enuff and be diplomatic. You wont belive my Mil has once simply denied going with me and my hubby to some function bcoz i was going there .On my face she said " If she will go there i will not go just drop her at home " when i was sitting in car fully ready and dressed up for occassion and then my hubby left me and taken my Mil.

So u have to be bit bold and do any kind of drama like you r not well or anything for stopping him to go or otherwise tag along with them by hook or crook.I can understand ur feelings very well bcoz i have faced same situations for so many years.

Dt worry just try to make ur hubby to ur side then everything will be ok.bye

vini
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