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2006-12-11
Name: tasneemsheikh



my marriage is hell. i lived in hyderabad and married and came to dubai. my husbend lives 5 days out and come on weekend. i stay with my blind mil and dirty father in law. few months were fine and then things started changing. i realised my fil watches me every time. he asked me to service him late nights. one night he caught me and molested me. i kept shut becose my husbend will not belive me. i called my abba in india and he said he can not help and i have to tell my husband. as there was no problem, after 10-15 days i was raped by my fil. i was so shocked i keep shut. i tried to tell my husbend and stay separetly, he beated me. this happened before my mil and fil. now i can not go to india or compalient anybody. i am living like a sex worker in my house with my fil. he is raping me for 6 month. i am keeping shut and allow him as my duty. i wish he die. i want to contact someone to help.
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2006-12-19
#1
Anonymous Name: Priya Satish
Subject:  Tell the truth



I dont believe you, it is a fantasy..
Your MIL is only blind, she is not DEAF, RIGHT ? why dont you scream when your fil approaches you with this intention ?
I believe such things happen only if you allow to happen. He will be an old person. Why dont you try hurting him like biting or kicking if he does something. Anyway you know his behavoiur and you know what to expect and when to expect, right ?
YOU ARE LYING. IT IS SOMEONE'S FANTASY..Please go and write on some board which is meant for it.
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2006-12-11
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Anonymous Name: fd
Subject:  oh god



my god, this is so bad that a father like figure dose this and your husband is not beleiving u....and why is ur parents been quite about this....why dont they talk to ur husband?

i suggest pls dont allow urself to get humilated and break ur self esteem....do something....its 21st century...i know in muslim community...woman dont have equal rights and there are problems and i also understand that if u complain to police ur husband will leave u.

but then, leave ur husband if he is not manenough to take ur side and go to indian embassy who will help u and send u back to india.

Are u educated? then u can work back in india. But atleast u will live in pride.

What good a life if u are raped and no one at ur side. Standup.

All the best
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2006-12-11
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Anonymous Name: goofy
Subject:  ?



this may be a fantasy

fake one
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2006-12-11
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Anonymous Name: gosh
Subject:  ohhhhhhh



i am shocked..if thiz iz true plz tell me where do u stay in dubai n ur fone number.so that i can help u...i stay in abudhabi.dunt alow him to molest u anymore..why dunt u commplaint to police or any of ur neighbours..i will definietly help u if u give ur contact address
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2006-12-11
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Anonymous Name: ash
Subject:  oh my god..........



Your fil is an ultimate bastard. Your fil is such a cheap.

Why your husband is not believing you? If you want to make your husband believe do one thing , set a hidden camera in your room, when your fil rapes you again then everything will be recorded in that . And


And then you show this to your husband and your other family members also.

This is only the way you can make your hubby prove about your assault........


Regards

Ash
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