Hi all,

I am slowly trying to get out of the shock.as i was crying a lot for the whole night i really got a bad headachea which is now making me dehydrated.my hubby really got irritated of this & started scolding me ,if u keep on doing
this u will be admitted in the hospital..but wut to do i am really sensitive & emotional..right now i am at my auty's house..since i was feeling home sick he dropped me at her house on his way to work..which is making me little better.even my aunty was scolding me by saying not to cry..we r all here i said i wud come & stay with u frm sep then y r feeling u r lonely..besides this finally my cousin's daughter made me laugh by saying \";y is aunty crying\"; after hearing that i blissed with a slight smile...i am really thinking whether to take 2nd attempt .if again it gets denied i cant bare & more over after 2 attempts i really cant apply for 2 more yrs.my hubby convinced me by saying that this rule will not last for long so again some good thing will happen he also says this is only our 1 st baby we still have to go for 1 more so dont worry if this time ur parents didnt come we will make them come for 2nd one \";which is not so funny\";.my aunty is also good in baby care she was there for all even she helped my Mil when my hubby was born, like a midwife ..so i think i shud be ok ..now last but not least alternative is my in-laws they have 10 yr visa until 2013.they just left 2 months back so wut let them visit again when my parents didnt get a chance..my hubby's only concern regarding their visit is both have lot of health problems..time is playing with me the worst...My Mil is also my dad's own sibil(2 elder sis)which is fine with me..my hubby said he will send me to india once the baby is here.
thanx again for all of ur support...
ashra Radhika replied. Was worried about ur health if u are stress so much..GLad u wrote back..it will take some time for the news to settle down ashra...don't worry..seems like ur aunt is closeby that means so much for a pregnant lady just to have a relative closeby..that too an elderly exp. lady..
All seem supportive in ur family..u have so many positive things to look fwd. to..and u get to go to india too.which is great..i have to join back work in jan..and believe me when my MIL's visa got rejected, i was joking with my mom and dad (who hopefully were listening)...\";ok think its easier to get a visa from heaven to earth than from india to US so maybe u can try being there\";.. I am sure they will be around even if I cannot see them, else i have no idea how I have the strength to get over such disappointments..
Cheerup, be strong and keep smiling..like the fact ur husband is humouring u...it really helps..husbands are more lost because they also depend on mothers to help them..but they don't show the emotions..I was happy to hear my husband looking around for all classes he could attend so he could also learn how to take care of an infant. We are lucky to have husbands like this and a child of ours..
Take care of ur health..and if i learnt anything from my Ges. diabetes class today, stress increases sugar level and stress hormones that baby can feel..so reduce stress is the first req..
Be around kids they cheer u up any time..
As for ur other ques..if my mother in law doesn't get visa again, trying to weigh all options so we do the best..we are preparing to learn more of child care and have my friends who are supportive...am thiking of spending a week with my friend who had a baby and learn from her mom how to take care of infant too. She is volunteered to be there anytime too..which is great.I may take longer to learn but feel it will be ok...u will be too..I assure u.
Hope u have a smile on ur face from now on and ur baby feels the mom relaxed too..Take care.. smile...
Radhika