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Thanks friends but now my evil eyed MIL has started playing more games,she and her beautiful (kashmiri) DIL,have started creating more problems they shout at anyone coming to our house whether it is the maid,mali ,courier boy or someknown guest that you have spoilt the passage and that go to hell etc.etc.we have tremendous seepage in our bedroom which is aggravating my asthma problem but her cruel DIL has turned a deaf ear to us eventhough we are ready to bear all the expenses all the seepage is coming from their shitpot,my evil eyed MIL acts as if iam talking greek and latin to her and the next moment she would sing praises of this equally evil DIL.These people stand in their balconies perpetually for the whole day to keep an eye on what i do and where i go.i feel so lonely at times ,living with such negative people gives one such dirty vibes that one can go and get a detoxification programme.My superwoman SILs(kashmiran)children have started throwing rubbish in front of our house if you tell them these ******start yelling,heart in hearts even i say to hell with these people but iam not able to remove their evil faces out of mind it disturbs me a lot specially when i have those asthma attacks.why has god created such messy and dirty people on the earth SANGINI replied. Really i think they are going crazy over you \" MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS ATTITUDE\" get the plumber and ask them if they don't let you make it ok u will call the police tell ur husband what is he doing is he living life like a bachelor, does he come home weekly or monthly or what he should fix up these people and these things like \" SEAWAGE\" etc.. please next time when he is around tell him to do it, i know may be u think that he comes only for sometime u don't want to give him tensiona dn trouble but why are u taking all the trouble and tensions, My friend ok we should give less stess to our husbands as they may already have stressful life in office but don't let me feel like free bird, he is equally resposible for evrything in your and your daughters life and specailly when all tensions come form his house...
Make some things very clear and if doesn't give any importance to what u say tell him u can't live like this u will take action aginst these SADISTIC SWINES, these TWIN EVILS please MARRIAGE IS ABOUT SHARING AND CARING why we understand this..
dON'T MIND I DIDNOT SAY ALL THIS BEFOR MAY BE U WILL FEEL BAD BUT I REALLY FEEL SORRY FOR U AND DAUGHTER WHERE IS THE MAN IN YOUR LIFE LET HIM LEAD OR SPEAK UP OR ELSE U WILL ALWAYS SUFFER.. saheli replied. Gosh .. your inlaws seem impossible!

I wonder how much we can help you and how much you alone can do in this case! In this situation, i can imagine if you and your hubby take a firm stand and be hard and say \" aisa hi hoga, else u hv ur options' .. only then they will fall soft! But i dont think hubbies wd do it.

Have u considered talking to a family counsellor secretly?

pls keep us posted
saheli