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I am an Engineer, working in a Govt organization.
My husband is also an Engineer working in a private firm on contract basis.
We have a son of 4 months old. My Inlaws are with us for the last 1 year with my sil.
Now sil is going to get married in June.
We have our parental house in Amritsar, where
my husband's dadi lives.
During their lifetime my inlaws lived their life freely and said dadi who used to stay alone for years that they will stay in amritsar with her and take care of her after my fil get retired.
now for the last 2 years he is retired but they don't want to go there. they say that they won't feel good there.
well we want to keep them with us that's why till now they are with us and also my son is getting care. but now situations are different.
Now....
1 My sister in law is getting married. So now we have to make them happy everytime. make them enjoy as they want this.
2 We have lost our savings and all in keeping them with us as they need food and everything as they want. Except this all social things are doing here only
Festivals are as they want. etc
3 Now my husband's contract is going to end up and he has to seek new job. that may be out of city also
4 For my son's care i want to take long leave without pay but money problem is there.
5 Problem may be solved if i go with my husband where he gets his job and we may easily survive but now problem is there with our inlaws

what should we do. heyU replied. hey u b**CH....u want them to take care of ur kid but don't want to feed them haan...if money is such a big problem them why don't u cut down on ur food and stop feeding ur child...is this what u r going to teach ur baby too...u'll get the same in return...better start for ur retired life too..'coz when ur kid grows up he's not going to take care of u in ur oldage and will think u r a burden !