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Hi,
I am 22. He is 25. I met him online 7 months before. But we have become very close. We have never met each other. We do voice chat daily for hours. We do sleep while doing voice chat. He says he loves me. I am from an orthodox family. I like him but I cant have any feelings for him. I know he is good. I am hindu and he is a christian. He says he is fine with hinduism too. He sometimes kisses me during chat. I have always felt that I should have feelings for only one person and he should be the one I marry. The one i met online is a very nice person. The problem is when i cant marry him I feel guilty when he kisses me. Is this almost like having an affair?? Iam confused. Because he has done all this, should i marry him? He sometimes even had talked that he wants to marry me, care for me throught out his life, have kids with me etc etc. Sometimes he has even dreamt of having sex with me.

Anyday If i dont go online, he goes on calling me saying that he couldnt sleep without talking to me. He even gave his sister a hint saying that he likes me. He is looking for a job after which he says he will tell his dad too.
I have told him many times that I will marry the one my father asks me to. But he says that he feels that we are made for each other. He feels confident that my dad will accept him.
If I marry another guy will that be wrong? I sometimes feel that I am not being true to my future husband. Is this natural in boy-girl relationship? I talk to him like a friend. Sometimes I think I should stop talking to him because he loves me. Can I continue this relationship?
Please advise me on this. shiv replied. I think cyber love affair will not last long. Also, love affairs are usually based on infatuation. Living together for years together increases the love and bonding between them.
I think you are in a age which is very very tricky. Unless he has a job and good supportive life it is not worth even trying to go ahead.
Try to concentrate on your studies and see that if you can be independent in life.