Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hi All,

I want to try for my third. I already have 2 sons and need a girl so badly for more fun.

Do you recommend any preconception tips? I tried to find on this website and on internet. I find geneselect which is basically selling you nutrient supplements for USD 199.00. Others like Jonas or selnas do not impress me much. There is new preconception service by urobiologics. It is fairly new and the plan seems to be impressive but I do not want to be guinea pig without getting views from other experts here especially Archie. My hubby also wants me to ask others first.

Please respond.

manisha Sonia replied. dear Manisha,

i read ur msg . sorry to hear that u want a girl just for fun sake.

There are people like me u r just not able to conceive and a boy or a girl is equally welcome. But when people like u who do have two boys and now want a girl and ur so worried abt that taht ur ready to use some medication for the same.......I realise that its a world of endless wants. When u have something u want more and then u also want to be selective.

any way having said this i dont want to comment anything further.
Good luck Archie replied. Dear Manisha,
If I were you then I would be very cautious before using any treatment package on me.
Having said this, I can take liberty to decline use of urobiologics mainly because there is not much known from users. Many times stuff sold in market takes several months to a few years to reveal some bad side effects. As infertility is increasing day by day there is a possibility that we will see many and many new products promising to achieve the goal. So is the choosing sex of baby, now a days people don't want to have many children yet want to have child of their desired sex.

From my knowledge there is not a full proof method that assures 100% guarantee of choosing gender of baby. However, I am inclined towards Dr. Shettles method as it has sufficient scientific base and the book also speaks on experience shared by many couples who tried the method. The book is apparent and makes clear that one can only work on the guidelines to boost chances but can not guarantee and that sounds pretty much reasonable.

Archie