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I know may sound a bit stupid by putting this post, but i want to know what response do i get to my query, my question goes this way Me and my husband stay with our daughter we donot have any problems and even from my own in-laws etc. Last year my husbands cousin sister came to me stay with us for job purpose then came my cousin brother came for job purpose and he stayed for sometime with us when after one and half month he shifted to a PG accommodation. In the meantime my cousin and my husbands cousin both got into an affair. we came to know but didnot react in any way later on when they started talking frequently on the phone they started sharing in the information about anything we talked in my house, my parents came for a visit and that time particularly many misunderstanding took place i had clearly spcified my husband cousin that not to share anything about the house with my cousin as it could spoil relations, My COUSIN being a very clever one he started passing all the gossips to my aunty in india one thing lead to the other and my aunty whose son we helped when he came for job now are so against us that they don't even wish my parents they are just staying next door back in india...
after all this mess they insulted my parents and spoke abuses about my husband, and now my cousin is planning engagement on this sunday with my husbands cousin his parents or mine or the girls parents are not here as we are staying in Dubai.

Now you please suggest that shall i attend this engagement after being used and insulted.and my cousin didnot even try to say sorry to me .Please help PriyaPrabu replied. just a suggestion

Ask your mother Sangini.Only she knows what and how much happened back home.My suggestion is think of attending the fuction only if ur cousin's parents invite you.