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Hi friends,
I am posting this message after a lot of rethinking and hoping to get suggestions and assurance from u.
I am a very friendly, outgoing and fun loving woman, luckily wedded with a very matured and understanding man and a mom of cute little darling. My only problem is with friends. I don't know why friends here specially in U. S. behave so weird . I observed people give lots attention to money and status. They don't like to be friends with ordinary and simple people, like my own circle itself they don't return calls, or not even call me often unless they r in some need. Actually so many incidents happened to me here that I ended up having no faith in friendship. They talk and act very indirectly and are very very cunning ,some of them don't bother to be courteous and very ill mannered. how long can i stop thinking abt these people and neglect their behavior. I tried by many ways like enrolling in some yoga classes and all but nothing really helps. pl. show some guidance . san replied. Dear KKK,
You have to understand Most people are like this here. I dont have many friends either. Most friendships are false. Or sometimes you think are good one, go bad. Have a few friends you really like and just talk to the rest. Read books, meditate or work. That will keep you busy. When you feel lonely talk to your family in india. KKK replied. Hi Depressed
What we have here in west bunch of illiterate idiots some how end up in US and Canada,belive me lots of them even didn't deserved to on airplane period.

I'm not sure which city you're in US consider yourself lucky because here in Canada city like Toronto are macca to all the illiterates[Please don't take this out of context you all canadian know who I'm talking about]

There is no need to lose your sleep over these people frankly,I stay mile's away from these mean Indians,these people have done nothing in there life other then Money and One Big House, lots of them have no social skills try to find diffrent friends because you'll never get along with them and always watch your back.

Remember this only people in these {US or Canada} country will stab you in your back is your on country cousins.

Every one here will tell you how you should teach your childerns about your own culture but they all forgot that it's easy to preach others but they all need to dig there own backyard first how about mixing this in there own brain.

Good luck and please tell every one back home how messed up our people are.

anu replied. i am living in us for 8 yrs, i have great friends, they are for me for good & bad times. and i am having lot better time than with indian friends.how long you been here?.may be time matters..i felt like other way around .i feel my indian friends are more cunning, jealous etc..