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Hello friends,

Most of us are victims of cruelty and mental tortures from in-laws especially MILs. When I read the posted messages in this message board, I feel that I am not going through anything unusual. I guess it's normal...and it is destiny of us Indian Daughter in Laws....

Anyway..most of us have kids and we all love our kids a lot..Do you think that in future we will be like our MILs when our kids get married. I hope I never turn out to be like my MIL....I will never be interfering in their lives...

My son is only 3 and I am thinkinh about all this :-)

What do you all think..the situation would be when our sons get married? hema replied. I believe when dil enters the house, make it clear that she understands you.now you can talk with her in beginning if any diffrences comes just clarify it or express opnion ..what ever you do with your mother..and show them feeling from bottom of heart my son & you like my both eyes..i need both & i love them both...how is this??is it too dramatic??
kiran replied. Hi.,
A very question to be asked to all todays DIL's. i too feel that i will not enter my sons married life atleast i will not do what my MIL does to me. What i personally feel is v should do our duties towards our children and never keep any expectation. EXPECTATIONS ARE NEVER MET SO WHY EXPECT AND B UNHAPPY. Even now i do my duties towards my MIL's and dont bother further to it.