Hi Friends,

I am 2nd time preganant and due date is on 6th octber according to my 3rd ultra sound report.

But now i need some help from you girls which is not concern with pregnant topic.

I am from india and mother of 3 years old son too, who is in one of the best school in nursey class. We both are working.He went to playschool at 1 ½ year old.
Recently he is going to new school. Every month on the first saturday, school organise a teacher-parents meeting.
Today itself we came from his school and his teacher was saying that :
He is very slow in drawing/arts.
He doesnt take part in Nursery rhymes.
He doesnt do action in the class.
He doesnt want to mix up with his classmates.
He is not active atall.

All those things he is doing at home. He is very active at home and public places.
I dont understand why he is not doing all these in the class.
Now i am worried about him. Infact both of us encourage him a lot and in the evening , we almost sit with him and teach alphabets, colours etc.

Can anyone guide me what we have to do with him for his improvement ???
Manisha replied. Hi Priya

As i am first time mom-to-be, so just trying to give you some suggestion here, but i have always loved kids & their company.
As you said that you have changed his school, so he needs some time adjust to this new place and feel comfortable there with new classmates, teachers and environment. I'll suggest that talk to his new classmates and teachers in front of your son, ask him who's his best friend in class. If he is going be school bus, wait with him at Bus stop & talk to his other friends there, try to drop him to school sometimes by yourself & talkto the teachers there in front of him. He will feel comfortable to open himself to this new place when he will see his parents comfortable with everybody there. Try to invite his new classmates and family at home one by one, that will give him time and chance to pick a new close friend.
Just have patience, i am sure your son will soon be open to this new place too.
about learning art/drawing/alphabets/colours etc.. don't pressurize him, he is too young, and try to find out the things of his interest & help him in learning that.