Not Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

i am really shocked to read that our india iz going worst.where iz our culture,tradition etc??people having sx b4 marriage that too asking which iz safe..
i am worried abt..i am a married lady having a daughter..i am worried abt her future thinking whether she´ l also go through thiz bad culture supriya replied. agree wth jyoti msg & also gives u advice to dont worry todays media also encorporate the help to avoid all these problems so its better to have faith on ur daughter & trying to be friendly wth ur daughter rhea replied. By reading your views i really think tht we r still snake charmers country ppl....what kinds of ideas r those? being friendly sharing our views with daughters is very gud idea but getting her married at 15...we women r still pushing our girls inside...stay at home, do some household work, dont argue ur brother...he is a man....ur a girl...wht ur husband will say if u dont learn how to cook...r we going back..still living in ancient times or developing cant say.....i am too having a daughter...i want to give her freedom, learn karate is very gud idea...just bring her up like a bold women...who can fight be independent...doesnt care of any guy who wants to show his male dominism...i donno how much i wil be sucessful but please dont make ur daughters sit at home get her married at 15 or something.....i am sorry if i hurted someone.... jyoti replied. I completely agree with you about India' s western influence.. Basically men have it more easy now without investing much. as it is we had dowry now we have to take care of our daughters from these wolves. I will say that you should sit and talk to your daughter about evils of premarital sex ,tell her how men might take advantage of her and only low esteem woman indulge in pre-M sex.Try to teach her karate or some kind of self defence if a man pursues her. I will just say don' t keep your daughter in dark about evils of soceity as along with bad girls even innocent girls get caught in this dirty net due to lack of information.Try to be friendly with her and communicate with her. Also educate her very well so no stupid man can come near her. basically self respect and good values can help a woman from these evils. nn replied. one idea which i got is dont send her to school, start home schooling and then get her married when she is 15 yrs ... ur problem is solved... u dont have to be worried about what other people do..