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2013-02-13
Name: tanvi



Hello,

My DH has many joint accounts with my MIL......She takes care of his investments.....I have no idea how much she spends and how much she invests and where she invests.......My husband ' s salary is half of my salary.....We presently live at MIL' s home......She is a drama queen......I and DH share my daughters educational expenses half half ....all other expenses are taken care of by DH and MIL.....

I have a financial insecurity that if ever my DH expires I' ll have nothing much in hand monetarily.The same has happened to my MIL....After my FIL expired she didn' t get the property ....As they say History repeats I want to be financially sound....How can I knock sense into my husbands head ,that he has to take policies investments in my name instead of his mother.....
If you have done so plz guide me....


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