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Joint Family:uncle prob
2006-06-13
Name: wise



my uncle is demon. i live in joint family. one afternoon my uncle came home early and i was caught with my cousin (distant) in bed. after this he came and literally threatened me to tell my parents and had his way with me. i told his daughter who is my age but she stopped talking to me. i do not know what to do as till today i have to let him do whatever he wants. one major concern i have is he never wears protection. i am worried. should i tell my parents?
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2006-07-04
#1
Anonymous Name: abc
Subject:  get lost



dont u dare say girls problem never end. Dont try to put up a poor suffering girl image here to cheat people. If u really want to end this problem u can but looks like u r having fun with the mess u have made in ur life. People like u r not worth giving any sympathy or helping hand.
After knowing so well abt ur cousin and uncle's intention , u r saying will wait and watch !! Top of these , u have to spoil one more innocent guy's life by marrying him and posing like a little innocent creature. People like u should be hanged.
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2006-06-29
#2
Anonymous Name: console
Subject:  hai!



I really cant understand what kind of girl you are.do you really like having sex with your uncle and your cousin.if not why dont you avoid them? take control of your life and body.tell you parents or do what xyz has suggested.it is really shame on you telling that you will wait and girls problem will never end.it is a modern world and their is no necessary for girls to suffer physical abuse.by your reply to these messages it feels like you are making up stories just to creat arguments.if that is the case then go to hell.shame on you.....
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2006-06-14
#3
Anonymous Name: xyz
Subject:  hi.



if your uncle is demon then you are a devil.
what were you doing with your distant cousin in bed?????...are you going to marry him???
Next how can you 'let' your uncle do whatever he wants is'nt he yoru father's age???..why?..can't you run to someone..you said it is a joint family !..
OK.I will give you one idea!..
Next time if he comes near you just yell and shout'how can you do this uncle?..I am your daughter's age!..gather everyone around and without the wink of your eyes tell everyone 'your uncle always tried to misbehave with you!.and if he starts to tell about you and your distant cousin say that he is lying!..he will not be able to do anything...Being the older man everyone's attention will be on how to punish him..not you..
understood?!..ok go on.
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2006-06-20
#4
Anonymous Name: Nishant
Subject:  Who are you?



Seriously Ms.Wise,
if you are a minor, then do what xyz suggested or what console suggested (tell ur mom n dad) with out the fear that ur uncle will tell abt ur being in bed with ur cousin. If he does, you can deny it (and inform ur cousin abt it also so that he does not crack under pressure and if he does, then you will be targetted. Ofcourse, then your uncle will not have the guts to approach you, but everyone will suspect you when anything goes wrong).
If you are a major, then you can deal with it. Ofcourse your parents are the best resort. If nobody can help, go to the police with your parents.
If you are married, and if your only problem is that he is not wearing any protection, then ask him to, in no uncertain terms.

Nishant.
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nishant(dot)psychologist(at)gmail(dot)com
Im not a professional phychologist, just a hobbiest.
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2006-06-14
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Anonymous Name: console
Subject:  hai!



I just cant believe this.uncle fooling around with a girl of his own daughters age!!!!!and that too who is related to him just like daughter.my dear you need desperate help.....you cannot allow this.if you are a minor this is a crime.i dont think so there is anything wrong in telling your parents.they are the ones who are really cared about you.take care.
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2006-06-28
#6
Anonymous Name: wise
Subject:  thank you



Hi all,
thanks for your support. i know problem with girls never end.
i have to wait till i get married or my uncle changes his mind.
i cry silently when he forces me. He has lost all shame and talks dirty in my ears.
i told my cousin but even his interest is in physical relationship onlyu.
i will wait.
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