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2006-04-18
Name: sheetal



my neighbour person has seen me with my bf in the past in the lodge. he told me if i do not give him sex he will tell my husbend. now daily in the afternoon he come to have sex with me. he actually rapes me everyday without my wish. my husband asked me about the bites he take on my body. he also does not wear protection. our maid is the messenger she tell him when i am alone. her husbend also came and molested me. how do i stop this?

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2006-04-20
#1
Anonymous Name: Pooja
Subject:  I think its a prank



It is not possible to have so many relations and still surviving a marriage. You are definitly a guy who is trying to fool around with gals, writting such silly questions. You must be enjoying the responses. Shame on you
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2006-04-21
#2
Anonymous Name: oh my god
Subject:  I think it is a prank too.



I was thinking...
May be it is indeed a lady and
May be she has fantasy about that neighbour and her maid's husband?!!!
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2006-04-20
#3
Anonymous Name: miami
Subject:  my god



my god ! r u the same sheetal who had posted mesg a few days ago regarding the absence of sex life in your marriage ? and have u been sleeping around with other men for this reason ? i think u have lost out on moral values and made a big not a many big mistakes. take hold of your marriage first. why do u have a bf in the first place ? r u not interested in this marriage ? then be courageous enough to divorce your husband and marry your bf. if not, then i am sorry but i am sure your bf is only using your body to satisfy his own selfish ohysical needs, so is your neighbour and so is the maid's husband. what kind of a woman r u ? really u r no less than being a call girl being used by lewd men. sorry to say this but if u want to live a respectable life then u should not be doing all this crap. u might have even contracted AIDS because of sleeping with so many men. dont know how many women these lecherous men have already slept with. my god u have already spoilt your life. i know i have been a little rude in my reply but now onwards if u want to live a good life then take charge of it. first of all confide in your husband, confess but be ready to face the music and promise him it will never happen in the future that is if u feel so, dont make false promises. SO please genuinely feel sorry about everything .remember when character is lost, everything is lost. all the best. May God help u.
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2006-04-19
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Anonymous Name: oh my god
Subject:  what are you doing.



Forget about your husband.
How can you do this to your selves?.
You have ruined your life!.You have made your selves a public property.If you don't do anythign about this sooner, each and every male person who comes to know is going to come and have his share.
Not only your husband, everybody else is going to blame you for everything once this thing comes out in public.
Neighbour is going to say you encouraged him and so is your maid's husband.
Your husband is going to kick you out.
That is for sure.I am not sure if your marriage can be saved. Your husband must be a saint to accept you once he comes to know about these.
Atleast do something to get yourselves rid of all these happening to you.
Run somewhere.Go to your parents house.
GoodLuck.


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2006-04-19
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Anonymous Name: oh my god
Subject:  what are you doing.



Forget about your husband.
How can you do this to your selves?.
You have ruined your life!.You have made your selves a public property.If you don't do anythign about this sooner, each and every male person who comes to know is going to come and have his share.
Not only your husband, everybody else is going to blame you for everything once this thing comes out in public.
Neighbour is going to say you encouraged him and so is your maid's husband.
Your husband is going to kick you out.
That is for sure.I am not sure if your marriage can be saved. Your husband must be a saint to accept you once he comes to know about these.
Atleast do something to get yourselves rid of all these happening to you.
Run somewhere.Go to your parents house.
GoodLuck.


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2006-04-19
#6
Anonymous Name: priya
Subject:  Kick him out !!!



I cant believe such things can happen in the modern society ??
Are you crazy to keep quiet ? Dont get me wrong .. First kick that neighbour bastard out of ur house !! Next time when he comes ..tell him \";Go and tell whatever you want ...I dont care\";
You dont have to tell ur hubby anything right now !

After doing all this do you think that neighbour have to courage to open his mouth to ur hubby .. Will he spared if you tell abt him ?? So he wll not tell anything... He is threatening you and taking advantage of you !
Kick that bastard out !!!
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2006-04-19
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You speak with your husband immediately. The situation you are in is sadly your own doing and I am sorry for that. I can see why you gave in to this guy but truly it was not necessary. And you maid, why keep employing her? Talk to your husband ASAP and if you can not bare to tell the truth then don't. But let him know what is happening, let him know it was rape if you wish but if any one can help it is he. It seems fitting that the man you betrayed is the man to be your saviour. I hope that your marriage will be better appreciated and that things get better soon
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