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Hey everybody,

I dont know if this is the right place to put my concern. Excuse me if i am wrong.

Ive moved from India to New Jersey, 2 months back. Since I am a kind of person who loves to make friends, I was checking if there is anybody willing to be friends with me. You can also suggest any forums where i can make friends. Its really boring when ur hubby is away for work and u need to sit at home.

Thank you. Dimple replied. Hi Anu,

How r u today..Sorry for replying a little late.. was busy yesterday ..

I'm telling u the whole incident 'bout my marriage then u decide it was love marriage or arrange. We met filmi style the first time we just passed through each other like the movie Ddlj in which sharukh & kajol passed by each other the very first time then 2nd time we met on computer centre where i was taking a course & he knows the manager of that centre..somebody introduced us on stairs we said hello & then he just goes on his way & me on mine..that time we were stranger but still i don't know y we bith remebered each other faces. then he came to canada & after 2 yrs a proposal came at my home from a boy who is in canada & i refused coz i don't wanna leave the country & my family so i didn't even saw the boy at that he was in india..so he saw other girls but didn't like any of them & goes back then he came again after 2 yrs & this time my mom's brother insist to see him just once & he said if u don't like him u can say no but atleast see him & i said ok..in the very first meeting we both recoganize each other & saw there was a connection so we meet again few times alone & then after 15 days we get married..so u can say it's sort of arrange marriage & he was in my fate so we meet again & again untill i say yes..then he goes to canada after 0ne month of marriage & here it's the start of love marriage coz normally the person in arrange marriage don't chat on the phone or e-mail for hours & they don't have love letters but we chat everyday for hours for 8 months & i had the collection of love letters which i call love bible coz he wrote me everyday in those 8 months & we celebrate the day on which we meet again just like our anniversary..& still we r in so much love after 3 years that it feels like we r newly wed..so now u decide it's love or arrange marriage.

I know this mail become very long so i'll keep other answers brief coz if someone ask me 'bout my marriage i can go on & on for hours..u can see that i'm still so much in love for him..

My hobbies r mostly same as yours like music travelling making new friends love to laugh ..reading but now i've very limited time for my hobbies coz of my little princess ..she took most of my time but i love spending time with her ..u can say it's my fav hobby now. Life has changed a lot after she came in our lives but they r mostly postive changes. now we got one person whom we both love verrry much & she is the part of us ..

Anu when r u planning to have kids..& how many??

Love..
Dimple Dimple replied. Hi Anu,

So u know ur hubby from last 6 years ..thats intersting...so how u feel now after marriage. Is he love u the same way as before or more. On points from 1 to 10..how much points u can give to ur lover who turned into ur hubby now.

Hey Anu tell me something 'bout ur nature..like u r introvert or extrovert..what r ur hobbies. How u like to spend ur free time .

& bout feeling lucky for having a daughter..i can not tell u how happy we r after having our little princess in our lives. Girls r soo much fun..Everyday i just thank God for everthing what he gave me. I feel so lucky to have such a wonderful life.

Dimple Dimple replied. Sorry couldn't reply u earlier..was a bit busy..So how's things going ? Anu do u have any kids ? What r u doing these days..i mean studying or planning to do something..Tell me something 'bout ur marriage & ur dear hubby like how u met with ur husband...how's ur relationg with him & ur inlaws etc. etc.

Sorry if i asked something personal u don't have to answer if u don't want but i'm just asking it to know u better..

Waiting for ur answer..
Take care..
Dimple hi replied. hey do u stay in hackensack by any chance Dimple replied. I'm sorry didn't know ur name ..but we can write messages here too. I don't wanna exchange email id so soon i hope u understand. But i'm really open for a good friendship. Lets hope that we became very good friends one day.

Take care..

Dimple Dimple replied. Hey..we can be friends. I came to canada 2 yrs back & have a 13 months old daughter. Tell me something 'bout urself..

Dimple