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hii
i know this is wrong place to adress my message but i feel that people here are like my friends and sisters as i have been a frequent visitor
oif this board
my problem is very strange
well i am here in usa and saving every penny and dollar as our income is not that good and we have 2 kids ,my husband loves me a lot and some times he spends a lot on us
for example when we go out he would want to eat in classy reastaurants where the bills would be atleast 80 dollars i also enjoy it but later regret for months .
whenever it is an ocassin like birthdays ,valentine days ,he would but roses or flowers for me ,i love it but later think that it costs atleast 25 dollars to buy a bouquet i could have bought a jeans ,got a hair cut ,etc
i know i am wrong and really lucky to have loving husband but some times it is money that comes in my mind and disturbs mre for monts
i dont know how to tell him that not to spend on flowers instead he can get me any thing that lasts atleast for some time
please suggest how to tell him without hurting his feelings ,
i know he will buy for valentines day also rashi bansal replied. you are lucky to have husband like yours. my hubby also spend money on us but its okey. its the life. just pray for your husband's happiness and be cool. every thing will be all right as soon as you join soka international, you would be able to undarstand all. hope 2 help replied. It sounds to me that you are a good wife with a good husband. It is obvious from your post that you appreciate your husband and also have everyones best interests at heart. I think if you were to talk with your partner, explain how you are grateful for his gifts and the way he gives so much to his family he will accept that you'd like if the gifts could be more practical. Flowers are a lovely romantic gift but perhaps you could convince your hubby that other gifts would be even better. New clothes or a hair cut are very good ideas, he would still be doing the sweet thing of giving and he'd also be \";saving money\"; because these are things you would need at some point anyway. Tell him how you feel sneh, you're a good woman and he will see that you love him. I don't think you will hurt his feelings, you seem too lovely for anyone to misinterpret your thoughts. All the best