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Hi..
I am an 26 year male living in small room in a chawl in pune with my aunt with her 19 year daughter (my fathers friends wife)12 years back we both lost our families in an accident and started living together. she cares for me like a true mother.Even I Take her as my mother and her daughter as my true sister.I work with an Shipping company
Now the problem is that since I live with them in very small room I am infected with lots of lice in my hair. My aunt is affected mentally for the incident which occured in the past but still she cares for me and her daughter equally. Every sunday after having bath she make me sit outside our home in open chawl on a small stool.She sits behind Me and she starts picking nits and lice from my hair. Then she apply lot of coconut oil in my hair and start combing my hair with a louse comb( joo ki kangi)for nearly 1 to 2 hour.there is lot of crowd people watching this in the chawl and everyone stares at me I feel embarased.I just helplessaly sit around and let my hair be combed with lice/nit comb.If i refuse she starts crying.Even this is not enough she then put mogra flowers garland ( Gajra)in my hair with the help of a pin which i should keep all the day.I just have to sit at home with heavly oiled head decorated with flowers(Gajra hanging on my backside hairs). She Also sends me out to buy groceries and i have to go anyway in such condition i.e Flower beeds hanging behind the bach side of my heavily oiled and combed hairs.This happens every sunday and all holidays.I have tried all possible ways but in vain. Pls help me with your suggestions as i cannot leave them alone at no possible cause. should i continue with this and just things go as it is or do some thing else?? pls help
namaste replied. please take her to some counsellor or psychatrist she needs help SAD replied. Who are you trying to fool with this sob story? \" Koi Mila nahi kya? p replied. I really can not believe this..I am really sorry but this sound absurd to the core. I love my mom too much, but I would definitely will not allow her to do something like this..I am sure, if I explain it to her nicely she will understand.
In your case, I think you are too obedient for your own good. Anyway, please make her understand in a nice way that no other boys put gajra in their hair. you surely point out at men on road and tell her to see for herself. Another thing you can do is, cut your hair very short..crop it..like army cut..that will not only solve the problem of lice/nits, but also it will be impossible for her to put gajra in your hair. Also who buys gajra for your sunday ritual? How does your sister react to this? Even she can tell her mother politely to not to do this.
If nothing works, tell her that doctor has asked you to not to oil your hair or put gajra in it as you have some skin infection..or any such reason.
I still can not believe what I have read..a 26 year old BOY coming up with something like this!
Do let me know what happens next!