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Abortion:Should we abort the third kid

2011-08-23

Name: Karan Gupta I am 34 year old man from Delhi having two kids (a boy of 5 years and girl of 1.5 years).We were not planning for any kid now but accidentally my wife got pregnant and we have confirmed the same today from doctor. She is 2 months pregnant now and we are seriously and badly confused about the situation. We are from a middle class family and we both together from our professions earn around Rs.47,000 every month.
We are confused with a question that with the third kid, we may be struggling with our finance and may not be able to give better life to our kids then.
In back of our mind we don' t want to abort but practically we think abortion is a right decision.
Please help us to take right decision.

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2012-06-02

Name: naveee singh
Subject:

I want to adopt a child

Sir,
Please don' t abortion sir I need a child for my sister my sister married 5 years ago n doctor says that nevers become a mother so sir she is so upsad n sir plz help my sister n plz give ur baby to my sister plz sir

2011-10-25

Name: Ramesh
Subject:

Would love to hear from you

Dear Mr. Gupta,

I had responded to your post sometime back but have not heard from you. Am not sure what you have decided. Would be nice if you could please consider my suggestion and instead of aborting, let a needy couple have the blessing of becoming proud parents.
WOuld love to hear from you on my personal email
Kind regards

Ramesh

2011-09-25

Name: p gupta
Subject:

family planning

pls go ahead

2011-08-30

Name: manoj
Subject:

hello Karan
1. i have been struggling from infertility too and i believe you should seriously consider request of MR Ramesh . Killing the child for money is not logical , ofcourse one need very big heart to give away child .i just need your thoughts about it ,

2. Ramesh , have you checked is it legal to adopt someone privately ? i need guidance regarding issue of private adoption
Thanks

2011-08-24

Name: Ramesh
Subject:

Would like to adopt

Dear Mr. Gupta,

Would you consider letting a childless couple adopting the baby? We are both professionals, me a computer networking engineer and my spouse a cardiologist. We will be able to provide a very loving and secure home to the child.
Would request to pplease consider this option instead of going for a medical termination of the pregnancy.
May I request to please contact me at aurocomp.ramesh gmail and we could probably discuss this in a more private manner than publicly on this forum?

Hoping to read you soon.

Kind regards

Ramesh

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