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2005-11-25
Name: noor




I am noor staying with my parents in dubai.
my mother remarried her husband. I am her daughter
from the second marriage. she does not love me or
my father when he was alive. now i am waiting to
be old enough on my own. my new father(?) is an animal.
he has sex (force fully) with me almost daily.
my mother does not have any objection. daily night
it is a rape in my house and i am the bloody victim!
i hate myself that i can not kill myself.
i am just 17 yeras old. Once I told my teacher about it
and she contacted my mother. I was beaten and locked for 2
days without food. I had to tell my teacher that i lied.
can anybody help me? my email is noor1988 yahoo com
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2005-12-28
#1
Anonymous Name: Viv
Subject:  Sick!



Not only your mohter and step father are mentally sick...but the entire system. Can you run away from home? Is there any trusted (female) relative you can stay with? You should work day and nice to find some support group of girls and women in similar situation. Contact human rights organization and write down everything. Don't go to the police as they will make your life worse.

You are the victim here, so you do not owe anyone an apology. Go out on your own if you have to. Get out of this situation as soon as possible!

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2005-12-02
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Anonymous Name: JointFamily
Subject:  Stay away from mailing this lady!



Why would one give email ID with such a story?
Either she is fake, wants to contact guys and girls to loop them in and spoil.

a. Daughter from second marriage? Meaning second husband is her dad? And dead? So mother remarried first husband?

b. If she did not love, why she would have left first husband and married lady's dad?

c. If she doesn't want to die, she can surely runaway to some sheltor home.

d. No mention about dad's case except that he is not alive. Surprised.

e. What help noor is asking from \";net\"; friends?

I am sure story is fake. If it is not, only reason could be she must not be real daughter of her mother, may be stolen or bought when infant. Any case, my advise is to avoid contact.

The only person can help is herself.
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2005-11-27
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Anonymous Name: Vanessa
Subject:  Take no shit!



Am surprised to read yr story. How can your mother allow your step father to have sex with you? Is she insane? She & he are sick in the brain. He married your mother so why is he wanting to have sex with you? I can't believe this? Is this something natural in your community? Don't ever think of killing yourself for the sake of a sick son of a whore. Nobody is worth it not even your mother. I think you should go to the police or some women right organisation for some help. He is dangerous and your life will be ruined if you continue to take this shit. I feel bad for you and have no regret in calling him a \";bastard\";.
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2005-11-29
#4
Anonymous Name: noor
Subject:  no help



It is easy to say. I do not know where you live, but where I live it is common I think.
My friend was abused by her elder brother and she had to keep quiet because her dad
scolded her on her way of dressing. Now she wears burkha to hide from people.
I am sick of this life. There is no way out. Police in dubai? You are unaware what happens here.
Last year one girl dared to complain against her neighbour who raped her, she was raped
several times by police later because they found this girl is widow and have no relatives.
The only thing I can think of is, after couple of years try to get admission or job someplace
far from this dirty country. Thanks for your reponse.
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