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My wife and me have had a love marriage 9 yrs ago and have a son 5 1/2. We migrated to a Gulf country together 10 yrs. back(before marriage) found ourselves suitable jobs and got married a yr later. We both work and make a considerable package to afford the luxuries of life.
After the birth of our son my wife devoted herself completely (whilst working) to the upkeep of our baby and our marital needs were neglected and sacrificed. A couple of yrs. later she faced burnout and got into a relationship with a guy from work. She had the confidence in me to confess and we worked her out of it.
Time has passed. It's been a long time, we've shared the ups and down's of life together and things are now in terrible shape.
As a person she is agressive, from the beginning, resorting to screaming, shouting to get her point across. Our sex life has detiriorated to almost a standstill, mainly because she's got too involved in her work and let go as far as her physical self is concerned. I am not attracted to her anymore. She knows this and does not want to do anything about it. Life's been going on since then with us living under the same roof. My sis-in-law lives in the same town. I get along well with her and her husband, and sometimes confide in my sis-in-law. My wife hates this and her sibling as she has had problems with her since they were kids. It's been hell in the house as my wife's been vociforously objecting to this friendship. I'm fed up. If an individual cannot choose his friends or talk to someone what is life then all about. Could someone please give me a clue as to what I should do. Life is not about right and wrong but about letting your loved ones live freely. That's my belief. Please Help. pragya replied. I think you both need a break. First understand that you both have to work out for a solution rather than blaming each other for mistakes. I all these years you have suffered too much, whoever is right or wrong doesnt matter, and forget it please.

Do one thing, take off from your work for about 10 - 15 days and go to some far off place. Try to work out your relation by doing all those things that you did 9 years ago. What is the use of money when it doesnt give you happiness.
Just take a break