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friends,I just wanted to share up my feelings.I have been married for 2 years & staying in US .My husbands brother is also staying with us.My husband tell s that when the brother getsm arried he will change houses.
His brother is very elder to me in age ..
U know hes getting quite irritaing these days.My hubby is 6 foot where i am 5.He makes fun of me & my hair & height (which is very poor).& i never take these remarks seriously.But he has started to be more misbehaving to me like he answers back to me or answers in a sarcastic manner.I wasnot brought up in such a manner & i cant imagine such situations.& am feeling really nad hearing all this..I just wish if he wud go out of our house... Take care replied. Hey Esha,
I will tell you something frankly, looks like he has gotten his message and there is no other way to deal with this situation. If he is not at all talking, that is good right.
You are frustrated over your treatment and that you are taking it out on other uncomfortable situation around you.
The thing is dear, if you are trying to concieve please dont let anything stress you. Stress is the biggest factor which delays pregnancy.
Be happy, accept whatever is in life and still try to be positive and smiling.
When i was trying to concieve and was frustrated..everything, my inlaws, my parents,my work,finance everything was a stress enhancer for me.
But the moment i let everything go and started to relax & be one with myself. It worked like magic.
BIL or no BIL, priortize your needs and work on them. Take care.
Take care replied. It is rightly irritating. Dont give him any importance.
Talk to your husband that if he wants his brother to stay with you guys then he has to stop his brother from misbehaving.
Cry whenever you feel like it & let it known to your husband.
Everytime your husband gets intimate or romantic, refuse saying that you feel very consicous with your bil in the same house.
Stay late at work (if you work) and be out if you are a homemaker and in answer tell your husband that you hate it when he is at home talking rudely to you.
When you are at home, ignore BIL and give all importance to husband. Make husband's fav dish and make jokes and talk funny about topics which just you and your hubby is aware of.
Ask your husband that what if by the time BIL gets married you have kids, this way you will never get to know living on own.
And if all fails, start looking for a bride for your BIL.